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This day and time one needs to ask their boyfriend if he is married, and when he plans to get out of it! I for one have been burned more than once with guys posing as imposters. They pretend they’re single just long enough to go to bed with you and to make you fall in love. Then guess what…

Ask if he (or she) ever cheated and how it happened. Then listen to the excuses and know you’re the next victim.

Ten questions you had better be prepared to reciprocate with answers to. Then place your bets because I am betting that these question will drive a wedge between people. Atleast 3 or 4 aren’t worth the potential drama caused by know the answer. You would be an ID10T to submit these questions to some you are interested in dating or have been happily dating.

u gay?

I like to know how do you feel about mom?

Do you and your childrens’ mother get long?

[just a few for now, sorry it is late].

For all the negative peeps on here…Stop Hatin on this Sista……Those maybe 10 questions that the info is important to her……I have in the past not asked questions I didn’t want to know the answer and then when I asked them and got the answer I so didn’t want to hear…it was kinda too late because I had feelings for the Brotha….I now have a list of questions(not exactly..but similiar)…and to avoid my time being wasted…my feelings being hurt….or getting in the middle of drama…..I will ask the questions on or after the first date..but no more than two weeks into….you gotta find out what works for you and do it…if you have been doing something the same way and getting the same results(definition of insanity)…try it a different way..PEACE )i(

KEY WORD IS COMMUNICATION!!

questions are good to ask early on, i agree. Why get involved with a person that’s not right for you. Feelings get sparked pretty early on, and who wants to get hurt? I know I don’t…this is a live learn lesson (l.l.l.) the 3 L’s. thank you.

Have you ever hit a woman?

1. What do you want or expect from me
2. How do you feel about a cozy night of just cuddling/no sex
3. What about me turns you on the most
4. What irritates you..what do you like to do the most after a long day at work

Thank You Deborah,
Now this is a topic you nailed straight up. I can appreciate a women wanting to know something about me even if it only is to size up my ego or libido. Cool, Earl

Other ?’s to ask your mate?

1) Do you have any kids and how many baby mama’s?
2) Are you active in your children’s lives and do you take care of them financially?
3) Do you believe in manogamy & commitment?
4) Do you believe in paying your bills? Which do you obtain first, what you want or what you need?
5) Where do you see yourself in a year? in five? in ten?

On the other end… Now-a-days, you have to ask these brother’s do they ever have any instances to be with another man and have they ever?
and….
Do you know your status? H.I.V, for those who didn’t know what I was talking about?

“WHERE DO YOU SEE YOURSELF IN 5 YEARS”. I KNOW THIS SOUNDS LIKE AN INTERVIEW QUESTIONS, BUT THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT YOUR DOING INTERVIEWING HIM!

This is an interview for the JOB OF A LIFETIME, possibly. Yes, you should ask and remember the responses.. .you may have to revisit them later. This interrogation should be ongoing and occur over a period of time, and be longer than any interview you have ever had!!! And remember, let your appetite for B.S. be minute.

Do you find me attractive?

What does your arrest record look like? (I can get a background check.)

What are your views on education?

What is the longest job you ever held? The best job you ever had and why?

Do you have your own place?

What is the most hurtful thing you’ve ever done to your ex? Your mom or grandmother? (you can learn a lot about him through how he treats these people.)

Do you have kids? Do you pay child support? Do you think that amount is adequate? If not, what are you going to do to change that? Do you spend time with your children and how often? What do you do when you have them? If you couldl do something differently, what would it be and why?

What is your definition of intimacy? Do you prefer having sex, making love, or “beatin’ it out the frame”?

Can you cook? What is your view on men and cooking? housework? child rearing?

Are you doing what you thought you would be doing at this point in your life? Why or why not? What are you willing to do to change that? Again, where do you see yourself in a year, five, and ten?

What health diagnoses are in your family history?

What are your views on shopping? Paying bills? Household chores? Yard work? Car repair?

What do you enjoy sexually? What thing is it that you do best? Worst? What would you like to try that you never tried? If you did and liked it, would you try it again? Have you ever been with a man or had group sex? The most adventurous place? The worst place? Where would you like to have sex? When was you last HIV test? Before we decide to have sex, are you willing to schedule some time to get tested for HIV and other STDs? Are you allergic to latex?

Do you owe Uncle Sam for any reason, for example, back taxes, back child support?