Wow!To a Queen like ME; that would be DEVASTATING! I would leave and HUMILIATE him somemore by BLASTING THAT S**T! JUST BECAUSE that Motherf**ker should have told the truth.. GOD, THAT HAS TO BE THE MOST DIGUSTING FEELING. Be Safe Ladies, You Neva know. bu… WHAT ARE SOME CLUES TO LOOK FOR~ if in suspect?/// I WANNA KNOW~ CUZ i LOVE me some MEN… STRAIGHT MEN.

I would be pissed, beyond any realm, OMG my thing is if u r than u r but dont be acting like u straight n going out having sex with men, and putting women at risk. I dont respect down low brothers, or bi-men, to me u r putting the women at risk, simply put because the women are trusting u, and u r living your secret life, and not caring about her well being only about what hole u r going to be in for a second of pleasure. AIDS is killing are black women and the reason for that is because of this nonsense. If u r gay which means u r sleeping with other men, than u r gay, I don’t want to here no stupid crap about it being ok, that u r not gay because u have a wife and children, but u r still giving the d!ck or take the d!ck. It is the most horrible thing to have been married to a man and have children and to find out that he is a disgusting down low brother, who has sex with men and the women, and is not caring enough to wrap his Sh!t up, next thing u know the innocent woman now has AIDS. I detest and strongly feel disgusted by men like this. If u r gay whatever stay and be gay, dont go play on both fields, because u r killing our women, u selfish trife bastards. I know I may sound upset, but I am tired of hearing about another woman that has contracted aids by her husband or boyfriend because he wanted to get some d!ck. Women don’t deserve this just for them trusting you dirty pigs. Get help and stick to one thing.

im scared for women cuz ALOT of these niggas is downlow homos….

even alot of these ‘goons’ be on like how you dooooin LOL

they’ll look, talk and act like 50cent, but be creepin with ”Madea” on the low lol

if them niggas gay just keep it funky and say you gay !!

women please BE CAREFUL !!!

I would be mad to find out my man is gay and on the down low, not because I care he is gay but because he lied… but this is also a wake up call for people, make sure you are aware of the people you are having unprotected sex with. Just because he is your man does not mean he is faithful. To protect yourself from the extras wrap it up

No matter how mascline, fine, and handome he may be, we as women have to got to be more careful and choosy about whom we chose to deal with ! It’s sad to say but, these days alot of men are on the down low and it’s sickening. They go from their wife to their male lovers, and that’s another reason why aids is so prevelant in young black females:(

things 2 look 4…1. if he tastes his tongue “makn that poppn noise” b4 he speaks 2. if he’s walking around in ur shorts that say “SEXY” across the azz 3.if u give him a kiss and he says THANK YOU 4.IF HE SAYS “OOO GURL/B**CH” LET ME TELL U 5.IF HE HAS PICS OF HIM LAYIN AROUND N THE BED WITH ANOTHER DUDE LIKE THE ONE ABOVE LMAO…AND THEY ALWAYS ALWAYS WANT TO BE UP IN CHURCH :| THIS COULD GO ON….. LOL

LMAO @ SOULFLAREZ, I JUST READ UR COMMENT..IT’S FUNNY BUT TRUE !

UGH…..

LOOK AT THESE TWO ASHY ASS NIGGAS!!!

NO lotion no NOXEMA on they ASHY @SSES……I want a woman..a soft, wet, oily, woman….wit a jiggling booty and some soft wet lips to rap around my D*CK…

and I dont do the anal sex….I LOVE THE P*SSY….if you would F*CK a girl in the @SS you would F*Ck a guy in the @SS…..

@SS is @SS no matter who its attached to….

YUCK!!

i cant agree more with IamDyeverse…if u can dig in a girl’s ass u can dig in a man’s..point blank

If you think your man is gay, RUN!

This is what raises a red flag for me. Not ALL, but MOST men who will date and or marry a woman who is clearly past her prime, I’m not talking about a good looking cougar like Viv, I mean a Moms Mabley, titties down to the knees, no teeth, you name it. if he is in his early 20′s and tryna holla at her?? He gay! If people keep trying to put a basket full of kids under you every time you wear your colorful striped sweater, and this too-cute young man wants you? He gay!

So when are we going to see the article of women being on the Down Low??? Just wondering.

If yall havin sex n he just wanna do anal,HE GAY…If a gay dude come to u saying your man is his man and he was wit him the day b4…HE MIGHT JUST BE GAY…LOOK INTO IT!!!LMAO

YA’LL HAD ME CRYING, I WAS LAUGHING SO HARD… bu I KNOW one of ya’ll men who commented is GAY.. dont front. lol. :)

Ha!ha! i was literally CRYing, i was laughing so hard. whew!

WOW!!! IT’S KIND OF HARD, IF I WAS SUSPECTING MY MAN IS GAY I FIRST WILL TRY TO COME ON TO HIM SEXUALLY AND ASK HIM DO HE WANT TO TRY SOME NEW SEXUALLY POSITION, IF I KNOW IT’S SOMETHING HE WANT TO ANAL POSITION ALL THE TIME OH YEAH, HE’S GAY.

Check out the movie “Cover.” EVERYONE needs to see this. It is really good.

If my girl is hanging out wit GAY DUDES, sumthin wrong wit her lol! I dont believe everybody GAY tho…we have a form of bisexuality tho, bcuz of imperfection thru Adam n Eve. I hear women comment on women all da time, i would never assume GAY tho! My homeboys say i’m good lookin, but they are no HOMO. I have 2 kats who i hoop wit dat are bi-curious, but will never date dudes, weird bcuz one doesn’t know about da other hahaha. I grew in da church, homo is not accepted lol! I like tata’s too much *(yea i’m a chest man)* lol i would die if i couldn’t get my hands on them lmao…Ladies, stop believing this GAY shyt…most guys would prefer a female anyday TRUST ME!

ANY MAN that goes anal, HE’S GAY OR GOT POTENTIAL TO BE GAY cause if you tag a woman in the booty hole you’ll tag a man, BOOTY HOLE IS BOOTY HOLE you nasty bastards. DOO DOO COME OUTA THERE. And if he tells you its a difference ask him HOW SO!! what’s the difference between a womans booty hole and a mans, DOO DOO DICK NAGGAZ smh. SODOMY IS WRONG ALL THE WAY AROUND AIN”T NO WAY OF GETTING AROUND IT, IT’S NASTY AND WRONG. Yall been hangin round dem PINK TOES too long lol nasty asses.

I couldn’t agree more! I don’t do that dik-n-da-booty shyt either. No matter what azz it is, the same thing comes out of it. That’s why I’d never fuk with a chic that her man is in and out of jail. Nine times outta ten, he done shoved his dik in some nigga’s azz in prison. Then he get home and put all dat booty juice in his woman pucci. I really don’t care if I offend anyone by this but, any nigga that puts his dik in another dudes’ azz just fukkin’ disgusts me. Now run tell dat…..

WHY ARE WE STILL USING THIS PLAYED OUT “DOWN LOW” TERM? CAN’T WE JUST CALL THESE MEN WHAT THEY ARE–BISEXUALS (& GREEDY BECAUSE THEY WANT EVERYTHING). I NEVER HEAR WHITE MEN BEING REFERRED TO AS ‘DOWN LOW’ THEY SIMPLY HAVE ‘BI-SEXUAL/GAY AFFAIRS’; LIKE THAT PREACHER TED HAGGARD WHO WAS SLEEPING WITH A MAN. I HONESTLY THINK THE MEDIA HYPING THIS DOWN LOW STUFF IS MEANT TO PULL BLACK MEN AND WOMEN FURTHER APART. MOST BLACK MEN AREN’T GAY OR BI! IF U SUSPECT UR MAN IS GAY-THEN U PROBABLY HAVE A REASON TO SUSPECT THAT. @ THE VERY LEAST, PROTECT URSELF LADIES. @ MOST–LET HIM GO, B/C A WOMAN’S INTUITION IS STRONGER THAN ANY ‘TEST’ OF SEXUALITY. STOP LETTING THE MEDIA CLOUD UR PERCEPTION–LUV EACH OTHER BLK PPL!

Well I have come into plenty of contact with guys like this. They never come out admitting it, but either there is a sign or gesture they do that raises the eye. I caught a dude that I was in love with checking out gay porn of men sucking dicks and nutt plopping out the azzes of white men and this demonic azz bastard swore up and down he wasn’t gay. But he was such a c**m freak and his libido was so high that I’m sure he would fuk a stray cat or dog in the streets if he could. Then a dude was pregnant by used to always say something about if he had to suck a dick for some money or somthing. And I admit, I’ve had anal sex with him before, but I looked at it as trying new experiences with a vague thought in my mind if he was gay. He also was a c**m freak, so maybe he is bi-curious. Of course, he was from Atlanta too. The black gay capital of the world. So go figure! But once again…this is another reason why I hate men. They are liars and deceivers and of course, they are the sinners that did all of us in. Sodom and Gomorrah starters. And just like they way it was destroyed back in the day, it will be destroyed the same way, but with fire.

Some of yall are dumb; it don’t make a man gay just cuz he do anal on a woman(you could say he freakier than some maybe even nastier). If he gay for liking to do a woman in the butt just cuz men also have butts then you gay for looking at a woman’s butt or her legs cuz men have butts and legs. Which don’t make sense right? I don’t like anal sex but I tried cuz my girl asked me too but I dont knock dudes who do. Now if they only want to do anal and don’t want no p***y yea somthing wrong with that especially if they don’t wnat head and don’t play with the tig ol’ bitties; they might be gay…

uhmm msveevee the original sinner was a woman; eve. If you keep get suckerd by homos maybe something wrong with you

wow….what are we giving one another….lots and lots of drama, deceit and a complete and total lack of consideration for one another…not to take sides because it has and will always be two sides to this complex story…as an “adult “, we should PROTECT OUR OWN BEST INTERESTS!!!!!
PERIOD. a man lying about his sexuality is no different than a man lying about his marital status
or lying about how many children he has by how many different women for that matter. i’m talking to able bodied adults, children step aside. how many men do you know “readily” volunteer information about their previous day’s activities? be honest with yourself, because i know the answer. now ask yourself, if he will/ will not volunteer this minute bit of info, what makes you think he’ll volunteer anything remotely life altering/ shattering? hmmm… YOU ARE ONE OF THIS WORLD’S MOST VALUABLE RESOURCES! PROTECT YOUR BEST INTERESTS!!! PERIOD. do your homework, ladies and men…the beautiful bombshell you just met may not be who she say she is…that man that seems to have everything you want in a man, again, may not be who he say he is. if we are ever going to be a race/ nation of people united, we as ADULTS need to UNDERSTAND THE DYNAMICS of situations like this and think about our actions. but of course we are in a capitalistic society, right…” i got mine, did you get yours? if not too bad, right? sup bru, can i borrow $20? sure you can, but the interest rate on that loan is 47.9%. just sign your life , um i mean your name on this line.” all this to say, OPEN YOUR EYES, LOOK BOTH WAYS BEFORE CROSSING THAT STREET AND MOST OF ALL REMEMBER THAT LOVE IS FREE OF CHARGE. I LOVE YOU ALL TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES, AND EACH OTHER.

just because a man has anal sex DONT make him gay. not to put my busy out here but hell we are adults (i hope) i ask my husband to have anal sex, and we did, its not something i’ll give his ass everyday or even once a month but when i ask for it he’ll give it me. none of us truly knows everything about somebody, i dont know how many women he’s been with hell i want to know the last person you were with and what happened. i just know that before he got in me we had an HIV 2gether. the guy lilchiko makes so much sense to me. you have to be real about this s**t. people do and will keep there dark secrets from you.

i respect everybody’s way of life, i may not like it but i’m trying my best to respect it and not judge it. he who has not sinned cast the first stone. and judge not lest ye be judged. like the other girl said a womans intution is strong about somethings. follow your own instints about whats going on in your own relationship or marriage,

lmao at neva1betta but seriously people i agree with a lot of what you all are saying. I just don’t understand why any man would want to live that double life other than the fact that he want his cake and icecream too. I don’t mind the fact that your a gay black man thats all to common these days,but don’t take my chioce to decide to be in your life away from me by lying and deceieving . That scares the s*@t out of my because I have a son. And if you form a relationship with me and I allow you to be around my child and come to find out that you living that double life we gonna have a problem POINT, BLANK, PERIOD no questions asked . Thats the main reason why I don’t allow my child to be around nobody that I’m dating or cutting with . I just wish more women would think about that. If he sick enough to lie to you about that aint no tellin what else he got on his mind.We all know we need to protect ourself because you don’t know who or what your man is laying with when he aint with you, but what about our hearts I been in a relationship where my man at the time cheated on me with another women and that hurts bad enough especially when you have feeling for that person,but i dealt with that the best way I could. But lets be real to find out your man cheating on you with another man , you can’t compete with that. I just pray to God when he finally sends me my husband that this is not what my fate and future holds. For the men thats on the D L please allow use women to make our own decision on whether we want that in our lives or not . NOT. I mean it aint like you not gonna get no a*@ from nobody its far to many gay men out there willing so don’t ruin my life in the process.

IF HES GAY, HES GAY! aint nuthin u can change bout that, well if u confront him he might (rarely) keep his true desires to himself or sneak out n do the deed. i said it before n ill say it again, all men r gay. we r all born female lol

there is a true sure fire way of finding out,stick ur finger in his ass while having sex and if he punches you in the face or cusses you out then hes a real man but on the other hand if he starts oooohhing and aaahhhing then hes getting more manhood than you.then just ask him he might tell the truth but make sure you have his nutts in ur hand while doing it.fags tend to be very good liers thats why they end up in politics(notice in the past few yrs how they’ve come out after getting caught).

Excellent advice Tina. That’s the real answer…….LOL

it takes Fagg 2 say that…

@ 0VancouverHurts…I have a Dikk trix lol…no man is ever born female! Da thought of it, makes me me earl hahaha! GOD made Adam n Eve, not Jarule n Fool, iight! Dont get it twisted. Comments likes these make guys question females. Ladies u have one hole 4 da pole, why r u lettin dudes stick u in da butt? dats just over da top! Wowerz

I actually went to a gay club the other day, i have been there like 3 times in the last six months. I saw SO many men who didn’t look gay, but when you turned around they were following the known gay guys around like lost puppies. I instantly got sick to my stomache. I have a few gay friends but it’s never put in my face like that. This was the first time i saw so many gay men there, most times it’s just a whole lot of lesbians. But, i don’t think i will going back to that club, to each it’s own, but it’s not for me.

Most women like guys with long hair , braids with two ear rings long nails and back in the day that would be considered as gay or bisexual. But now a days people are turning it into a trend…. but who is the trend really for? But of course there are a few that are gay without all of that stuff. But why make it harder for your self to date a guy with female tendencies. Ask your self one question. Why does your man spend so much time with his boy or boys when he could be layin up with you ? hmmmm might be suspect.. or might be cheating.

0VancouverHurts, thinking like that would have gotten you burned alive, drowned, stoned & hanged…

That is the most misplaced information on metaphysics I have ever seen!

The Universe has only TWO aspects ENERGY & MATTER!

ALL MATTER IS CONSIDERED THE FEMININE ASPECT OF THE UNIVERSE WERE AS ALL ENERGY IS CONSIDERED THE MASCULINE PORTION OF THE UNIVERSE…

SO if we are all female, then we are all male as well only differentiated by our physical sex organs… OH WAIT, THAT”S HOW WE TELL NOW! LOL!

Kountry_Mayne, I have 8 earrings (four each side) I have locs that are getting longer by the day, This so called “trend” has been an evolving look I started in 1989…

I am also a man after Gods heart, a 20+ year martial artist & devoted father of 5 biological children!

I’ma need some of you people who try to GENERALIZE EVERYONE to meet me somewhere ANYWHERE in public and call me gay for how I look… just because I can recognize & accent my personal beauty, doesnt make me gay or bi-sexual.

Dont judge me HOMIE, looks have been known to be HIGHLY decieving!

My point is that I look like someone people might question but far from what anyone thinks!

Wow some of you look into it too far.

Weird….we call that dog tagging. No matter how fine a chick is if shes dog tagged she’ll get no play except from someone desperate. To dog tag one must- urinate on, shoot a huge load on her face, (not just a couple drops but like the xxx movies, the big budget ones not the grainy shaky camera, ones with a set not just someones bedroom). Get dome on while taking a dump. Or tear her bootyhole up. Most women are commonly dog tagged after she has cheated or been caught cheating and are trying to get back. After the act the male tells all his boys what he has done, thus she has been dog tagged. Or if you like your chick and you dont want someone to try a swoop move dog tag her. Commit the act, tell a friend, so who touches her then.

I’d just like the people to know at hello beautiful the more of my comments that get deleted, the less I’m going to listen to others with a different point of view……….Get it? I mean if you can’t handle criticism, then make sure only the believers can get in…….

LOL

Ewwwwwwuuu! That is so wrong and nasty on so many levels. A lie kept secret is still a lie. If a man is having sexual relationship with another man while having a sexual relationship with a female and hiding (the down low) is like low posion. STDs, HIV, along with moral issues will arise as well. Married men or those who lead double lives and engage in this risky behavior need to remember this and think; the same lips you kiss him (where ever) with you are kissing your wife, children with also. Good looks, body, money aren’t really a dead give away, plz, lol If you think so then look at the trannys out there. Lots of hardcore men are going both ways and does it seem that blacks are more acceptable to this way of like? Now thats the real question you think?

To answer the question If my man was doing that? “O hell 2 the NO!” (Whitney H.) I got to go.

First off, I have nothing against gays, but if a man tells me after years and years of marriage that he’s takin it up the poop chute, ima kill him, simple and plain!!!!! Aids is very high and if I gotta catch something…not saying i couldn’t get it from any other straight man, because u never know the line of the people they slept with or them before that, but I would kill him!!!!!!

WHOEVER REPLIED TO MY COMMENT IS SHO NUFF A SUSPECT! MUHAHA MY GAME WORKED. Stan my man, I never said we are all female i said we are all born female. You had a coochie before u got ur dick on. Burned? stoned? drowned? hanged? = that sounds kinda homophobic to me! Real men wouldnt reply to my comment. NO hate just stating the real. OBviously my comment is based on all the men in the world coming out the closet thousands by day! lol What is a girl suppose to think? Are men for women any more? lmao

DEAR GOD, AS TIME GOES ON THE NATURAL WAY OF LIFE IS BECOMING LESS AND LESS EVERY DAY PLEASE GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO RAISE MY CHILDREN WITH A CLEAR STATE OF MIND A TRUE HEART OF YOUR WORK AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW WHEN THE DEVIL IS TRYING TO TURN TRASH TO GOLD. IN YOUR SON JESUS NAME I DO PRAY AMEN.

If I thought my man was gay i would simply…. LEAVE HIS ASS ALONE!!

me 2 and if my man was gay was leave his azz 4 thats guy

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