You have to have a wife before you can have girlfriends. Women like the fact that they’re taken a man away from another woman.

I Think Its TRUE LOL!!! And Agree it Is A 2 Way Street If You In A Relationship You Need 2 Be ABLE 2 SAY NO TO TEMPTATION!! I Wouldnt SAY All but there Are Some Married Men/ ones with girlfriends Who be tryna Holla And You yourself kno they Really LOVE The Girl. ….SO I Be Wonderin WHy They even Waste they Time Or insist on HAVING A Sideline ?????? Answer that plzzzzz LOL

In Most Cases A Sideline Gettin somtin Prolly and don’t have 2 Deal With Things The Wife has To deal WITH

to understand the phenomenon you’d have to know the mentality of these particular hoes.

they all have emotional issues and mental issues whether due to being abuse victims or b/c they learned how to be a hoe watching and/or hearing that mess growing up. iv heard (ghetto) women telling their daughters stuff like “you gotta do what you gotta do”, “don’t matter if he w/ somebody, if he’s wanting you that’s that woman’s problem she ain’t taking care of business”. these instances just don’t make for a well-balanced woman. they don’t trust any man b/c all the men they’ve known of have been dogs so they view all men as dogs.

so, when they meet a married man, it’s not about sex or him @ all. it’s about jealousy. hoes know they are hoes whether they ever admit it or not. they’re extremely jealous of his wife’s lifestyle. they don’t feel they could ever have it for themselves. they know no man will take them seriously. this is typical fuel for the fire especially when they know the woman.

and then there are those about the conquest. he’s SUPPOSED to be off limits. that’s what hoes get off on. to see a man whose married w/ a family, they are out to prove (in their minds) that he’s a dog just like the rest. it’s as if to say “she thinks she got a good man. well, he aint smack. i had him last night”.
when they meet a married man that turns them down, they become hysterically angry. they hate him, can’t stand to even look at him, he’s all kinds of gay, “he wasn’t nothing anyway”. i’v heard them talk. this is how they all talk, how they think

i hope that happens to me lol

Well said Kashi101. Only scip scaps want a married man, not a woman who possesses high morals and character.

it takes TWO TO TANGO!!!!!!!!!!!! TWO! TWO! TWO! TWO DAMNIT.
blame BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some women love the thrill of the hunt to attain someone that is off limits. They prefer to be the chick on the side.

If you really want to know the answer to this read the book “Married Men” by Carl
Weber he has good books. He also has a book called “Something on the Side” which is about married men also they are two great book I have read them both. I had a married man I worked with once tell me he does not wear his wedding band because women go after married men quicker than single men and this was many years ago he told me this so yes I think women do prey on married men so they can have some fun!

The Married Men I come across, in life IS TRIP in his own right BUT my issues remain on/with his ass, I don’t do no battles with his other realities he got going! If his REALITY(s) steps across the line at me, it’s been either or, meaning, “With the Black Women we have lovely little chats, get an understanding, then sister girl can move on in peace, realizing the problem(s) she have with the man, was a problem WAY before she found out about me, so she realizes it’s something she’s got to 1st & foremost address, instead of taking on the whole world over a MAN who is going to do what the F**K he is going to do BUT on the other hand! “The Claked Faced Ho’s,” they are pure wicked low down drama.” It’s a known fact they BELIEVE a black man is a right, an entitlement to them so, when it’s all said and done, they are in a class by themselves! For some odd reason(s) we know, none black women SEEM to really be surprised when they get with a brother & all of a sudden he NOT prove to be this man she’s dreamed of, etc., then they want to straight up CLOWN! I ONLY desire Black Men BUT don’t have a problem going without if one is not available and/or is way too sloppy with his s**t! IF I was the marrying kind, THANK GOD I’M NOT, I would self protect on bothsides of my coin! Married men who cheat, single folk who will involve themselves with one? Man, it’s such a coin toss in life! One has to really be able to handle whatever fall out, surprises which comes with it!!!

I’M A MAN…I’M SINGLE,…BUT FOR THIS PARTICULAR REASON…ALSO MARRIED MEN ARE A MAGNET FOR ADLUTRY.

It is true it takes two…therefore both of you are wrong…The married man wrong because he married and pursuing some1 other than his wife….and the “other woman” wrong (if she knew he was married) because she adding herself to someone elses relationship… @ Kashi101 Well said!

I don’t belive single women prey on married men. I belive it’s the other way around. These married men out here going to the club,working they used that as they every day playground th boost some kind of ego. They want to know if they still got it. Married women quit blaming single women for there problem just cause there husband his out there cheating on them its to be a reason,lack of something. I know some men who only true reason for getting married was because he got a wonman pregnant thats wrong because not only are you cheating yourself but you cheating the other the person as well. SO QUIT PUTTING ALL THE BLAME AT THE FEET OF SINGLE WOMEN

It’s common in Dominican Republic. It’s best to not be the main chick who gets cheated on, rather they figure you be the side chick and you can’t possibly get hurt because you’re not the main girl. The other part to that is always wanting what’s not yours. Women are notorious for wanting what they can’t have fully. Women are sick in the head, man. So yes, this is true!

LOL @ women are sick in the head!
I wondery why

HEY, IM A SINGLE MAN,, IF A SEXY LADY IS SHOWING ME LOVE, AN SHE IS MARRIED.. IM NOT GONNA MESS WITH HER.. I MIGHT TEASE HER OR GET TEASED MYSELF, BUT IF SHE KEEPS IT REAL , AN LET IT B KNOWN SHE IS MARRIED, I WONT DO MUCH WITH THE HOE

In the pass I’ve dated married women…and I will today. I’m not the one cheating. I’ve had and will still have open relationships. I don’t commit, and she don’t have to either.

Ratchet wmn prefer married men b/c they feel its an easy way to avoid getting hitched. Not realizing 99.9% they’re getting the short end of the stick.

hell yes single women persue married men really you dont even have to be married Fellas have u ever been out with your lady and notice that you receive twice as much attention as you would if you was solo or with ya niggaz

Only a hard up loser(men and women) would willing to deal with a married person, its never about you when your the “side piece” and worse wit will alwys be about espcially if its a man…you will have to see him on hiss time…do what he wants and when…lol…to the left – to the left with that bs for real. Dont settle ladies its not that serious the man is not going to leave his unless she dies or something…liek the vows say so try to stay way from that. Fellas need to stop lying about being attached too…we understand you probably wont get it in with a desent chick if your honest, but still no need to lie, all lies get found out sooner than later.

I speak from personal experience, as soon as women find out your in a happy relationship, they start throwing the draws left and right. Whats even more crazy, is the amount of women I come across in relationships, whether married or living with there man, that to claim to be single! After a few late night calls from blocked numbers, I start questioning them. Only to find out they have boyfriends, or are single (but living with there childs father) wtf!

In the past year, I’ve dated more women in relationships, than single women. The reason being, that single women sit around waiting to get chased. While a married/ or shacked up woman, will go after what she wants! Single ladies yall better step your game up, and go after what you want. Instead of playing that princess, damsel in distress crap.
@diamondprincess_12, you dont have to believe the truth…lol

YOU CAN’T WRECK SOMETHING THAT’S ALREADY WRECKED MEN WOULD NOT CHEAT IF THEY WERE BEING SEXUALLY SATISFIED THAT’S THERE PURPOSE MEN SHOULD NOT SETTLE FOR OR COMPROMISE WHAT THERE LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN IF THEY TAKE THERE TIME THEY CAN FIND IT ALL IN ONE PACKAGE

“that ring on his finger just shows me that he can commit”

LMAO…that’s a first!

I have been told that they do because with a married man they do not have to worry about all of the drama that single men give. You know he’s married so unlike single men you don’t have to deal witht he lies of that’s just my baby momma or she my cousin or we went to high school together…etc. Also you don’t have to deal with the other lies of sure I’m ready to be with you but right now is not a good time for us to take it to the next level and it’s been over 3years. Now I was with the ladies I have talked to cause that nonsense & foolishness is very tireing!!! They also say with married men you know what you’re getting yourself into & with single men there is no security. I did ask how do you think you’re getting security from a married man. I was told that what you see is exactly what you get with no expectations warrented. The security is that you’re getting just what you ask for so you can never be let down. So if you expect more then it’s your fault if you get hurt. I do think it’s stupid if you go into it looking for a relationship. So by what I’ve been told it seems that single women (including me) are tired of the drama so single men out there listen to Mary J. & give us less drama!!!

well im gonna add my words..and its true single women do perfer married mens….. it have alot 2 do with, them being loyal… and it shows that yeah they are not scared 2 commint…. a married men shows that if they willing 2 commint to one..they will be faithful 2 the next women they end up with…. but i had the same problem its was years back….. i was only 16..and he was about in his 20′s and he was married and had 3 kids with his wife, but he gave me signs and was teasing me and telling me he wasnted happy being there so there for i asked him why dont u leave he said b/c of his kids…. but i think i was a front i knew he still love her..he just wanted 2 see if i was gonna go any further with him which i didnt…. so the last words he said 2 me is that ..look what u could of had….i just wanted u 2 make me happy…. i think he wanted just some sex that i wasnted giving…. i guess thats what his wife wasnted giving him enough….. but anyways…… im not the type that would break up a happy home… but if a married men wanted 2 bring me in2 his life…. then yeah ill go for it.. long as we both happy …. and he make time for me and he really wants me in his life!

Women cannot in all good conscious, continue to call men “dogs” or complain about “there not being enough good men” until they start making better choices in men. They go after “thugs,” married men, and even try to insane qualities such as height requirements and justify them as “preferences.” They simply need to think beyond their emotions.

I feel a married woman or man, no matter what they are going thru with their mates are all off limits!!!!!!!! Until you can bow out of a relationship and heal, no other relationship should be created!!!

Women cant complain about men being dogs until they get better taste in men. Women love drama….point blank. They look at it as being fun or exciting when they deal with a dude is taken. Its all a game to women until they look up and their 35 with 2 kids and nowhere near getting married.

i think spritiually its wrong to mess with a husband or a wife especially when u know they are married and u think that everythang will be gravy and karma can come and bite in the a$$

Yea that is some crazy stuff about women, in my old neighborhood the women know I was single and never looked my way until they saw me walking driving up to my apartment and open the car door and out stepped my new girlfriend. Now the hole damn block was on my jock.

Single women do prefer married men because they figure they can have their cake and eat it too. So it would seem that is their preference. And vice-versa, for the men who want to date married women. They want the best parts of a relationship but are afraid of the “long term aspect ” of a commitment in a relationship. And that in my humble opinion, is the glue of a successful relationship. Once you have weathered some hurricanes and earthquakes in relationship then a storm would seem to be trivial. It takes a strong man or woman to recognize that divorce is not an option and that I made a vow to God to honor His relationship with me and to my wife. The grass may be greener on the other side of the fence but what kind of fertilizer is being used to make the yard so green and lush?

I WOULD LUV TO GET MARRIED AGAIN. I TRIED IT YEARS AGO AFTER ATTEMPTING TO DO THE RIGHT THING. I GET SICK AND TIRED OF MARRIED MEN COMING TO ME WITH THE SAME OLE BULLS**T, HOW UNHAPPY THEY ARE AND BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. SUCK IT ALL UP AND BE A MAN, KEEP YOUR VOWS AND QUIT ASSUMING THAT EVERY WOMAN WANTS YOUR MARRIED ASS. I LUV MONEY, SO IF U R MARRIED, I SURE AS HELL WOULDN’T SETTLE FOR 2ND, SO THERE WOULD DEFINITELY BE A PROBLEM. I’M SELFISH AND OUT FOR MYSELF WHEN IT COMES TO ANOTHER WOMAN. I THINK THAT A CHEATING HUSBAND LIKES THE DRAMA AND SPOTLIGHT OF IT. IF THERE IS A WIFE THAT PUTS UP WITH IT, THEN SHE IS JUST DOWN RIGHT STUPID OR DESPERATE. LET HIM TAKE HIS ASS ON. MY ATTITUDE IS VERY BADDDD, SO MY HUSBAND WOULD NOT WANT TO DEAL WITH ME. HIS ASS WOULD GET STRAIGHT EMBARASSED AND OUT. WOMEN THAT LIKE MARRIED MEN HAVE THE SAME OLE STORY AS WELL, HE SAID HE WAS GOIN TO LEAVE HER AND THAT HE LUVS ME, YEAH RIGHT, HE’LL LEAVE IF SHE KICKS HIS ASS OUT. THERE ARE NOT MANY MORALS LEFT IN THE WORLD OF TODAY, SO I ASSUME THAT’S WHY I HAVE’NT TOOK THE 2ND WALK DOWN THE ISLE, HE WILL LIVE LONGER. (SMILE)

Only immature and women who are unhappy with themselves “intentionally” go after married men. Misery loves company plus they know a lot of men ( NOT ALL) are weaklings and considered easy prey. Then you have the women that think they are sitting on gold mines and that once that married man gets a taste of them that he will surely be ready to leave his wife and family. Never really knowing or caring that he will eventually do the same to them. Until women come to the understand the golden rule of “do unto others as you would have them do to you” we will aways have this problem but once that same pain is inflicted on them, it is only then that a woman can know and respect the boundaries of a relationship or marriage.

Married men are a waste of time and may get your ass shot and killed! I went with one married man in my lifetime UNTIL, I asked myelf what would I do if he had a heart attack in my bed! That s**t right scarred me and I haven’t thought about going with another married man. Then everyone would know. It ain’t worth it!

To odoggz,
I know it’s your opinion that women are sick in the head, but it takes two. It’s 50/50 when it comes down to dealing with a married person. In my personal experience, I was dating a gentleman who I thought was single for several months. Everything was laid on the table atleast on my end. As time went on just friendship thank GOD, I found he was married when he mysteriously dissapeared for a month. I don’t believe in pursuing someone who is already in a relationship. There are so many men with the lame game of how him and his people at home are having problems and blah, blah, blah. Marriage vows were made for better or worse. Not just when one gets bored in the bedroom. At the end of the day ladies who engage in these type of relationships can only feel empty if you really have a heart. Spiritually, it’s dead. Most single men don’t want to commit or have drama. Love yourself first women. Married men, keep your A@# home where it belongs.

As a SINGLE woman-I can PROUDLY say HELL NO-I DON’T WANT NO MARRIED MAN NOR WOULD I DATE HIM.(JMO)

I think some women are attracted to seeing a man doing his thing with his woman and then imagining herself in that womans position. She may see strength success and stability in him. If you dont have a woman already wanting you they may see you as undesirable or not worth having. There are deeper cultural issues here. Polygamy has been in our culture (all Eastern cultures) before we came under the influence of the western world. Women out number men.

I can’t stand married men who cheat. But for some reason, up until last year, all I seemed to do was to attract married men. There were quite a few few that lie to you though and say that they are single. As well, there are a lot of men who say that they are going through divorce and are separated and are not telling the truth at all.

So the ladies know it’s had out here. My thing is this however; if I do it to another sista’, it is going to come back to me as soon as I get mine. And I am too jealous to put myself through any of that.

I disagree with woman enjoying drama too. That is simply not true. I know a lot of men who are attracted to drama and can run out of fingers counting them all.

Yes, guns scare the hell out of me and with the so called men shortage out here today, woman are fighting to keep theirs at home. And truth be told fellas, you call those ladies crazy, nuts, or whatever your small vocabulary can muster…but hey, if a woman really loves you, of course she is not going to just sit there and give him away. Come on now. Men fight for their love too, so my question is why some men try to act so hard and say what they won’t do…yeah ok.

Men are too blame in the case of a woman coming after them (let me finish) …and accepting EVERY invitation. Just because you are offered what LOOKS good on the outside does not mean that you are obligated to TAKE it ALL of the dam time. So you are just as guilty! You can say NO!.. You can be honest and tell that woman that YOU ARE MARRIED too. So stop the BS fellas! Your s**ttttt stank too!
It’s a two way street that we all are walking on, playing in and with.
Just keeping the facts straight here.. IF you are going to tell it…
Strings out!~

And one more thing…
NO! It is NOT about another woman seeing you with another woman making you more attractive. It is simply because a woman sees you and views you first (before she ever even talks to you)..as an attractive man in some way.
You guys need to take some responsibility and say that you are attached.
And after that if that same woman continues to come after you, YOU back her off of YOU.
Stop throwing it back in a woman’s lap. You being a dig too as you as you say I do to two woman.
How come you all don’t get that?
Now, I’m thew!

Dammm! I must have gotten a lil pissed typing that ..
Ha!..lol
“Stop throwing it back in a woman’s lap. You being a dig too as you as you say I do to two woman.”

What I meant to say and I will slow my fingers down on this one…

“Stop throwing it back in a woman’s lap. (the drama).
You are being a dog too as you do or try to tame and deal with two (both of) those woman.”

Fellas you can have the last say… (especially when it is respectable).
When you say NO, you are really respecting three people..you, your mate, and that woman who may or not no better.
Long story short, don’t do it for her, (the other woman)..do it for you and yours.

Strings43

Sistas always cryin about white women stealing their men and then give sistas like Alicia Keys and Gabriele Union a free pass when they go and cheat with black married womens’ husbands!

Being the possessive and dominant female that I am, I just do not see the appeal in being with a married man. It’s like buying used goods. Not only that, you are always on his time, he is probably having an affair with other women, he generally will not be able to support you (but if he does, it’s only a matter of time before you’re cut off), if you want a family, he can never give it to you. Plus, you’re usually sneaking around to see him, you have to watch your back, and with all the time that you spent on this cad, you probably passed up a few opportunities to be with a good man.

look all woman ain’t lovein people like they once was Now do to white folkz in DC and the way our money ain’t s**t the average nigga can go to hell!!!! .Hip-Hop hoes and Bell player make the Female what they are Now “Gold Diggers” married men want what? “P***y” Single Women want what? any one : “Money people” Its not hard to kno the facts,most Females ain’t s**t The world you live in is about what you have in the bank Just keepin it 100. onelove:Rockim aka lil’Roc

I for one are totally against dating married men. The thought turns me off completly!!! Making a conscious decision to date, creep, hookup, or mess around with a married man is dangerous, and a bad idea for someone who wants to get serious with a married man. Think of all the unnecessary junk that you have to deal with: “sharing him in bed”, late benefits, ie….whats “left” of his money, GOD help you if he has children, which is also a detriment because you’ll get the blame if the two of you are ever found out. I don’t see the happiness in dating a married man because its as temporary as unpredictable wheather. Why bother? Is it really worth it?

why is it that when it comes to issues like this we all seem to look at the man as if he is the problem… we can debate this till the cows come home but at the end of the day, many women perfer married men because its less of a commitment. yes thats right women do have that problem also. I’ve met many women who ONLY talk to married men because it gives her more freedom to do what she wants… to still have fun and a life without answering to someone. women think about sex the same if not more than a man does and that same number looks for that with no strings attached… its not just a man thing as most would argue.
Have we forgotten that in this day and age poeple, men and women, view it as a challenge and it satisfaction on being able to sleep with someone who “belongs” to someone else. there are times where to woman will be cool with the wife. smile in her face and laugh behind her back because the wife is clueless to the role this woman is really playing.
it was said that its a two way street… i disagree. if he never told you that he was married then thats one thing. but if you knew and you still pursued then attention must be direacted to you. at the end of the day a man will be a man. but a woman has and will always have a choice in who she dates. so why CHOOSE a married man?
it is as simple as this… a man who is spoken for will always look more appealing in the eyes of a woman than one who is single… why? because if you are in a serious relationship, dating for years, or married, she looks at it as he must be doing something right and must be good at what he’s doing.
I can say this because i talk to many women about issues like this on a daily for a book im writing and the vast majority has expressed the very point of view. and for those who would think that he must be talking to the same kind of women… the answer is negative. this is from white, black, young, old, ghetto, classy and everything in the middle.

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I agree with game-tight. Women do silly things and expect good results. The definition of insanity: to continue to do the same thing with the hopes of getting different results. You persue a married man, you get the leftovers, deal with it. A man will only do what a woman and his conscience allows. (Not all men cheat)

ALL MEN R THE SAME WHETHER THEY R SINGLE R MARRIED BECAUSE NONE OF THEM R S**T. AS FOR AS WOMEN GO I DONT BLAME BLACK MEN FOR GETTING WHITE WOMEN BECAUSE BLACK WOMEN R SOMETHING ELSE. SORRY BUT ITS THE TRUE 95% OF THEM LOVE F**KING DRAMA. AND HALF OF THE TIME WHEN THEY R GOING WITH UR MAN THEY WANT U TO KNOW. AND WHATEVER HAPPENS TO MARRIED MEN THEY DESERVE IT. BECAUSE IT ONLY TAKES ONE WOMAN FOR A MAN. THATS Y THERES SO MANY CASES OF HIV AND AIDS IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY. NOW WRAP THAT UP!

What I find pathetic over all is how man and woman are so against one another on issues today. None of us can get on the same page about an issue that really counts…like aids, loyalty and honor to one another.

If you are married and remember actually signing the papers in the eye-sight of God and witnesses, why would a married man go out to play with every intention of breaking those vows with a woman who does not belong to him, means him absolutely no good, and may be a potential threat to his family?

You all have a woman to call your own. You all also made a vow to commit to one woman for the rest of your lives. That same woman cooks for you, she cleans for you,and she even washes your dirty drawers.

If you are that unhappy, leave the marriage. Why hurt that one woman that you claim to love so much. Why can’t you just say no to a flussy, big breast and big butt woman? Go home and sex on your own woman? It does not matter if another woman asked you or not to sex her up. If she tells you to jump over a bridge, are you going to ask her how high? Dummy! Just like you can die from that flight, you can die from what she gives you below (and your wife)….some condoms do not protect you from STD’s fellas. (lambskin for example).. ..and some of the others cause infections..so why do it? Is it really worth the pleasure?

It really makes no sense. The old saying that a man is going to be a man is a terrible excuse to call a him an uncontrollable dog with no morals and values or virtue. A Man should be an Honorable and Phenominal Man. A man is the head of the household (in a marriage). What kind of leader are you to your family, or to your children if you are breaking your own vows (rules of authority). How can you teach them anything you don’t even do?

Why even get married fellas, especially if you think that woman ain’t s**ttt as you all are saying here in this blog.

I’m sorry, I don’t care what another woman propositions you to do, there is a single word that works in all languages. No. N..O.. No! You all could be getting set up to get caught (and unless you got money in the bank to pay that alimony..hmmm)…and you all are too dumb to think about that, hugh? Black men are c**ky as hell. Some of you all are not even attractive enough to be as c**ky as you all are.

Wow!

The answer to this pretty simple, not all women want marred men but many desire them because a man being marred shows financial stability and/or prosperity and those women desire that money for themselves thats why many of them want his marriage to end. On the other hand the men that do this are some completely foolish men as wellas is theier wives because most os these women knew who they we’re getting married to, well …unless that was their plan the whole time I wouldn’t put that past one of todays women.

Im single and all I can say is-if he got a ring-he can’t get in between my legs or anything else. I don’t want NO married womans left overs. And if he will cheat on his wife-he would do it to me-too.

@missstrings43
Yeah women don’t care about any other damn women! They’re just selfish p***ks themselves today, who think with their totos. Too many say they wouldn’t cheat with a married man, but their cheating with some dude who’s taken right now! So I really can’t believe crap out of a woman’s mouth either. Women should know better, and do better, but they’re all talk and do different from what they way. Hypocrites.

NO! point blank. Find your own dayum man. I definately fault women for dating married men. Just because he appears to want your azz doesn’t mean you have to accept his offer. If he is married and you know it, step off or spray mase in his face something. I mean Dayum how would you feel if it was your husband. How desperate can you be? Being single is not bad. That BS about dating married men because of not wanting a committment is crazy. Piss off with that BS. You can get a single man who does not want a committment, there are plenty out here. I find that women date other women’s husbands because they are either evil, insecure, no-class, or simply have no morals or standards in life. BASICALLY THEY DON’T GIVE A RATS. Their attitude is like this, “If I don’t have a man, why should she.” These are the SAME women that go BONKERS when they finally do get a husband and he turns around and cheat on their shiftless behinds. Besides, why would a woman want a man who has legal rights to stick, lick do whateva he wants to his WIFE, which he is suppose to and then turn around and lick and be stuck by him after he darn left home. WTF? I don’t get it, seriously I really don’t get it especially when there are so many eligable bachelors out there to prey on. And these stupid B’s actually think he will leave his wife for you when if he’s cheating on his wife, basically he’s cheating on you and if you were going to go through all this, you would have been better off with a man who is not married. Stupid, I really don’t get it. GET YOUR OWN DAYUM MAN HOMEWRECKERS!DON’T BE MAD WHEN YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW AND YOUR HUSBAND START CHEATING ON YOU. This is why I will probably never get married. I don’t know what I would do if I found this BS out.

……i just re-read what I wrote, please excuse me I love you BP.

No wait, did homie say “totos”? HILARIOUS odoggz

SHALL I REPHRASE THE TITLE FOR YOU??? “DO DESPERATE WOMEN PREFER MARRIED MEN?”…oh that’s what u meant Abrams??…oh ok. Well the answer would be yeah.

Yes They Do. The Reason Being They Don’t Ever Want To Be The Other Woman In Their Own Home.

It’s Not About Being Desperate It’s About Being Smart. And Why Do The Wives Tend To get Mad At The Other Woman??? NO ONE PUT A GUN TO HIS HEAD AND SAID LOVE ME, F**K ME, WANT ME… YA DIG!!!

I guess my mind works differently thank goodness for that. I personally could never be with a married men because I don’t see how it can be fair that he would have a mistress/side chick and a wife that he is still sleeping with. The other thing is that I have more respect for myself then that to think or even consider sharing a man knowingly, now unknowingly that is not the woman’s fault. It is like the women don’t value themselves and think that it is ok and gives them clout to be the mistress. It is disgusting and pathetic. I mean honestly do these women not think much of themselves that they don’t think they deserve a man of their own. Goodness no one should be that desperate. Personally I don’t feel that the wife should have any issues with the side woman if she didn’t know that the man was married. Put the blame where it belongs with the person who u walked down the aisle and exchanged vows with. But karma will bite you in the a$$ I say don’t do anything that u don’t want to happen to u. I would never sleep with a married man because I wouldn’t appreciate that. and why get half when more than likely you are giving a half relationship your whole. Ugh….. Think better of ya self and the men will start to think twice about stepping out on their marriage and why would anyone want a man or woman that is part of that, I would think at any given moment they will be jumping onto the next available lap.

no…because a lot of times you didn’t realize he was married until later on down the road…i mean unless you are happy with being a jump off…what kind of life is it? he will never be with you on holidays, overnights, week-ends…why bother? some women think they will leave the wife…not happenin…

Also women stop making excuses for these men. Why wouldn’t they cheat when they have the women they are cheating on making excuses and society as well. Since society condones a man cheating like he is entitled to do stray. It is a shame that the world makes it okay and the pretense of normality by being a cheating dog. It is not only the fault of the women. Both men and women need to respect themselves. Men need to stop being given the nod that it is acceptable and instead be accountable for their behavior. It is disgusting on both parts. I could give a rat’s butt about that is how a man is going to be. It is this mentality that encourages and allows these disgraceful men to continue being hoe’s and sleeping with and stepping out of their marriages and relationships. It is nothing that men should be proud of. I see it like this are men that pathetic and immature that they are unable to control themselves if they see a nice pair of ti!!s or ass go pass. The view can be enjoyed but it doesn’t need to be devoured. How about these men grow up and act mature with respect and sense. DOn’t let all the blame fall on the women I blame both parties. Women and men for breaking up a home. WOmen know this it is not your job to fix another woman’s relationship go get your own and men instead of spending all that extra time and effort with the next chick put in that effort with your wife it can only help and not hurt.

q.) how can you start something with somebody belongs to another?
a.) you cant, should’nt want to or even think about it

nuff said

This is a crazy and of course a one sided subject. And to be honest they should change the title to “why do Married men pursue single women?”. Because most discrete relationships that involves a married man and a single woman, usually the man is the one that persuaded the woman(most cases). You have these men that lie for no apparent reason’s by telling them(single women) the famous of them all I’m “separated”(an implying it’s over for good) or better yet I’m in the process of getting a “divorce”. And they know damn well they still at home with these women. So to me these married men are the ones that should be in the hot seat. And most married women love to blame the other woman, not knowing what this man is telling her. Just like he can make up lie’s to you(the wife) and get away with them. Well he is doing the same to her. I was married to one of these men and I never blamed the woman, but my husband I did. For the simple fact he had a family(well starting a family I was Prego) and decided to be unfaithful. He pursued her. So what better way to let him be a “single” and free man? That’s right, I let his a$$ go. That’s right divorced! And yes I maybe single but I’m single and stress free, STD and HIV free. And it’s really sad, a lot of married women do not know how to do this. They feel that they can’t find someone else(do to insecurities), or they love him so much they don’t want him to leave(he will never stop cheating) or they don’t want to start over. These are some of the excuses I told myself until enough was enough. Once a cheat always a cheat. And it’s a shame now being a single woman you have more married men preying on you then single men. To my married women here’s some advice: do not hold onto these men(the one’s out there cheating) because they are going to do whatever they want to do and it only get’s worst! I have known and know of married women personally that refuse to give their husbands up after finding out he is cheating and the ultimate price for not doing so their husband gave them the big “A” and some got lucky with a curable STD. Because a lot of them don’t strap up! Don’t be a victim because you refuse to let these unfaithful men go! Also I know some of you men feel that I’m only getting on you but that go’s for women as well. Let them hoochies go. Basically, if a person can’t be faithful don’t be at risk, let them go!

Babykakes1114 and missstrings43 I agree with you sistas to the fullest. However I do want to mention I see alot of comments saying he will never leave his wife for you? Lmao Because that’s another lie that married women(use to be one) think or make themselves believe. I don’t know what day in age you guy’s are in but the divorce rate is at it’s highest. And there has been alot of men leaving home to be with another woman(you better make sure she’s financial secured though). My grandfather divorced my grandmother after 33years of marriage(10 year ago) and remarried after their divorce a month later(the women was 31 years younger). So please don’t give me that bull they will pack their sh!T and go. It’s happening more and more now today.

yeah that’s true half of america is divorced…but there is also that statistic that the second marriage leads to divorce 75% of the time…my thing is if this a*****e is doing this on his wife or girlfriend…what in the hell will he do to me? and i have this motto…if he will cheat with you…he will cheat on you! believe that…

@seductive-angel

i agree with you…stds scare me…and most of these men that are out here doing this…don’t wrap it up…that’s why hiv/aids and everything else is so prevalent in communities now…it doesn’t matter if she was a business woman, stripper, or hoochie in the street…aids doesn’t have an income bracket or a chosen profession….

It’s simple as this: any woman that pursues a married man has no self-esteem or self respect, and is content being used as a jump-off. Any man or woman that is married and pursues outside relationships is trashy and doesn’t value themselves, so how can they value someone else. When someone says,”it’s complicated” that’s just basically saying “I want to have my cake and eat it too” Hell, fix your s**t, or end it. If kids are involved, take care of them, but don’t string your spouse along. In the end, you will lose more than you expect.

You Reap What You Sow….If you sow confusion and discord your gonna get what’s due to you….Confusion and Discord…Who needs that added with the trials and tribulations of everyday life?…A lot of good points made on here…Im good on married men and boyfriends….My husband will come one day….I’ll know it’s him b/c he’ll be eveyrthing I prayed for….Stay Blessed and Out these Married Men faces..lol

@Jazzylicious: yes you are right about the divorce rate, but are these men really leaving their marriages to skip over to another woman or is it more so that the marriages are failing? I work with nothing but men, and in conversations, yes some have admitted to cheating on their women; however, when it comes down to divorce, they are not trying to risk leaving, to pay alimony for some side chick. Their aim is to half a WILLINGLy (which gets me mad) chick on the side who will know and play her role, and continue to keep wifey. A lot of my male associates have even admitted that THEY didn’t want the divorce, it was the women who wanted it.

i have been there and it aint what it’s all cracked up to be…you definitely get the short end of the stick.

I think it goes both ways. The thing is women you have the power to say NO. Know your self worth. Being single is better than being a jump-off(as it’s called these days). Married men are off limits period! You have a right to your own man. Don’t settle…I do believe some women think it’s acceptable and they don’t owe their fellow woman nothing. Wrong! You owe the respect to the next woman just as you would want it. People can’t cheat without a willing participant. If one does pursue you tell him to take his triflling a$$ home to his wife…PS…For all the single ladies who believe he will live his wife, must won’t…and if he does, he will never treat you like he treated his wife, because after all you’re just a JUMP-OFF!!!

leave…sorry!

One more thing: As far as divorce rate I believe it’s more for financial reasons than anything else…Cheating seems to be last on the list these days…Sad either way…Guys it’s cheater to keeper…

I think it’s sick for single woman to want somebody else man these b****es are greedy for a man they will never have to their own self he will play you every time cause he got take care of home first before he can hook up with you so you will be second to him and he want be trueful to you cause he got a family to take care of get your own man and be happy why tear up somebody else happiness that’s why std are bad these days cause people do sick stuff!

I agree it is a two-way street. I find it hard to believe that a wife is totally willing to ignore her intuition and the red flags of her cheating husbands. Yes i believe marriage is an institution and a financial one at that. For the married woman who is in that situation, if you can honestly admit to yourself that your willing to sell your self short for the sake of financial support, can you really be mad about your husband’s lustful tendancies reenacted on your female family members?

WOW jazzylicious2006…you are soooo on point with everything you said…esp the part about women lying to themselves and saying the married man will never leave his wife. I’ve watched it happen – and YES he left for and is still with the jump off. Bottom line is WE (women) need to stop blaming each other and make the MAN (who is the one that made the commitment) take responsibility for his actions. Some men actually think cheating is acceptable!! It’s because we rant and rave about the other woman. We fight the chick, and then take him back. Put the blame where it belongs and kick his a** out.

Men lie about women, but sh*t, women lie about plenty! I have heard it all from why men cheat to why women cheat, I was cheated on heavily as a young lad, and as a result I cheated as an adult, then it became a habit. I’m not married never been but I know from the start if you are not completely satisfying me then I’m gonna cheat so why even get married. And what I mean about satisfying is not just the sex, the whole package, it doesn’t have to be perfect stereotypically, just perfect for me. cheaters know they will cheat but they get in marriages for other things they couldn’t get from the ppl they cheat with. on to the subject tho,lol, just to get some women i have to admit that I’d lie and say I’m seeing someone when I’m wasn’t. Single Brothas just wasn’t getting any play in 08′ dayum..I think i got more women like that because they felt i was honest not so much of the other woman. —– It is also funny how women like MOM’s be telling young guys oh u young play the field, don’t settle down, way your options, its plenty of fish in the sea, but when they were that age they was trynna lock a man down. they tell u to be a playa then hate u for it ! Note to the Fellas; WOMEN Fu#k US, WE DON’T FU@K THEM!!

The saddest thing about some married women, is the ones that has never lifted a finger a day in their life and is a dependant for their husbands. And I personally know a married woman that fit’s these shoes(and their are plenty others out their like her). Basically her husband has been having affairs(several) and he does not hide them(anymore). This woman is so weak and have no back bone of her own. Because she is aware of his infidelities and she accepts it(she like‘s to think she has no choice)! Her husband has her so under his control, he tells her that she better not start with them. And she obeys. And I asked her why do you put up with this? And the first thing she say’s is: I never worked , I never had a job so how am I going to make it? SMH! He even punish her by not giving her spending money when she complains about his affairs. I’m sorry there are a lot more weak married women out there that put up with there cheating mates then strong ones that don‘t tolerate it. And It’s sad because some of these women rather get upset to the point where they want to harm the other woman and when they do they will be locked away and he will be a free agent(still screwing whoever)! So get it together once a cheat always a cheat!

she is an abused woman…some women don’t realize that he doesn’t have to get physical in order to be abusive…the mental abuse is the worst..in today’s world that’s just an excuse…’he doesn’t give her spending money’? i mean is she is wife or child? common…that’s bulls**t!!! she needs to talk to a good attorney or if he withholds her ‘allowance’ there’s always a good representative @ legal aid……
please don’t say she’s like carmela soprano? some women stay because of the money…but me personally, i wouldn’t give a s**t what he had…there is just so many wrongs to that…he could give her an incurable std…..hello…aids..no man or amount of money is worth that…and you may not have as much as you had while with him…after you leave or divorce him…but i’d rather have a piece of mind and a good man…rather than let some a*****e disrespect me and take away a piece of my dignity every day….

i guess i’m just too quick to tell a mf to kiss my ass!!!! see i’ve never had a problem getting a fool out of my damn face!!! LOL!

I usually don’t make comments like this ever but they look horrible together like a broke down hood couple from around the way. Nice clothes but ragedy house smelling like cheap beer and generic cigarettes and yes I know they are both rich and famous.

I wont say that single women prefer a married man it’s just that alot of these men lie abt their marital status and what happens is u get hooked on them because they have this maturity and hubby instinct that u want..so u keep dealing with them.

Alicia has some sexy seducing eyes but thats no reason for him to cheat on his wife with her

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I thought alicia keys was engaged to a producer? oh well….you learn something new everyday…

I truly think that when a girl….far from what a woman will do,a real one n-e wayz! i think when u mess around with a guy and u kno he’s spoken for that it shows what low u feel for self!! FIRST&FORMOST that wifey comesFIRST!! Please belive that one boo! I just dont understand y any female would do this to another if she dont want it done to her…..KARMA’S A B***H……NAMED MZDOINIT!!! HEY shanell in e.c. get@me.

http://www.AreolaTV.com Gotta get there! ;-)

Also.. I didn’t know that Alicia Keys was dating J. Holiday now. Isn’t HE married? ;-)

Basically nobody can tell me that all married men lied to single women to get them in bed. What about the married women who cheated on their husband and lied too? There are plenty people I know that are married and from my experience of hanging out with them there are some single women who don’t care if the men are married. They will hit on them while the wives are out of sight. I have witness one such a woman who knew the man was married and the minute the wife went to the bathroom she hitting up on him about wifey not looking after you boo. Next thing I know the wife was back in a flash and threw a whole bucket of ices on this skank. It is well known that some women like that just like to compete against a rival over a man and if the rival give up what they wanted too easy they’re not interest in that man anymore. If the rival do not give up it’s like that saying may the best person win. In another situation where another man became three a crowd a friend dumped his wife and told his rival he can have the wife since she’s old news to him. That lover did not wanted the wife anymore after that go figure and she was pissed.Apparently he (lover) does not wanted to be tied down in a long term relationship or marriage. Karma a b*tch! So regardless of who doing the cheating first they better remember what goes around comes around.

it works both ways for bot sexies.The unmarried man and woman both desire to have someone to wonder off to the fading sun in our wonder years. Both struggle with the simple issue of being true to the spouse, working together. No matter how you look at it as soon as you put that ring on your finger you become honey to bee’s for both sexies. It’s even hard for woman that men because women will leave the hubby thinking that they other guy really cheish them they way hubby does. As soon as the process is over the desire for you is over. The same things happen when the man leaves his wife for a younger, prettier or someone he thinks he wants. In the end you have to be sure that you want to to be married and that everything else is not wortht it. been there done that it’s all a headache in the end

Once that ring go’s on that finger it’s hands off PERIOD….it you pursue a married person then you get what’s coming to you when you know dang well that person is married,i know a person know is paralyzed for messing with a married women the fool got shot in the back trying to exit out a window LOL not funny but he got what was coming to him.

Lets stop playing games, if you are running around with someone elses spouse you are a nasty skank! I am shock somewhat by the AKeys Swizz Beatz situation. Although she has always seemed a little trashy to me! Shame on them both. I am shocked that there isn’t a backlash for either of them since the media & the public likes to be in performers personal business these days!

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i agree with u motortongue. same here

I think it’s more so the married men pursue single women. The single women have to say yes. BUT I have not pursued a married man, but they have came to me on many occasions. It may be an ideal situation for the single girl, If you want a sexual relationship…with out making a commitment to someone. Is it right… probably not. But you know there are always shades of gray in every situation.

I dont have no respect for a man or women that pursue’s someone’s spouse that is married it is called ADULTERY! When you make your vows to someone when you get married you are making them in front of God and I’m going to stay TRU to them no matter what. So, if you can’t handle that then don’t marry me and DEFINITELY dont cheat on me that won’t be a pretty situation ;)

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Marriage in america is the biggest f**kin joke! We as americans should get rid of it. Only good thing about marriage is free will. Nobody stays married these days,and most marriage end with hubby getting some other woman pregant and having babies outside of the marriage,or one spouse giving the other some kind of STD. ABOLISH MARRIAGE NOW!

I was pursued by a married man and caved. I wanted the sex and so did he. He told me he was not attracted to his wife and did not like having sex with her because she smell bad. YES, he went there! I have no regrets, he still calls but I decided not to go there anymore. Married women if you want to keep your men, wash your a@@ and shave! Don’t let yourself go after marriage. The same goes for men.

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I was pursued by a married man once, but I could not do it, cause 1. he married 2. I have more worth than that. 3. I kept thinking bout his wife and how she dont know she married to a dog! Like wendy said..think like this….if both of you were in a “Life-Threatening” situation, who do you think he would he be supporting first…….think about it!

I agree with Ariesblood79

I have been the other women and when the wife came to my job with the family photo album it got really messy. It’s not worth it. You can’t build happiness off of someone ele’s misery. Everybody gets what they deserve in the end. God sees to it.

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