speaking as a man and for myself, eye can forgive but eye can’t forget. you stupid if you stay with anyone who cheats. money will OFTEN make a female stay with a man who cheats.

If you allow a person to cheat the first time, that person will do it again. The first time (for anything) is always the hardest. Remaining to be cheated on again not only gives the cheater practice at your expense, but you become conditioned to accept this behavior. Personally, I don’t forgive that at all. If you cheat on me, you are out. No discussion, no redemption, no forgiveness. Just out!

i would first cheat with another guy he is beefing with…and then i would leave lol…revenge first. i could never be with someone i dont trust…waaaaaay too many men in this world to just settle. love is not unconditional…

Sylkifeather, I like your thinking (lmao)!!! I have low tolerance PERIOD so if a man is cheating I’m cool on your ass…deuces!!! I don’t need it–love myself too much for that. However, I will say that if I am “invested” this relationship and the RETURN is greater than the investment I may consider staying. If he is a good provider, we have established a lot together and this is an ISOLATED situation….I may “think” about forgiving him and us moving on TOGETHER. However, me being me I probably would always have that in the back of my mind (not being able to completely let it go). Some things is easier said then done. Who knows…it is all hypothetical so I don’t know *still thinking*.

DIG THIS…NO AMOUNT OF MONEY IS WORTH YOUR RESPECT…CHEAT ONE TIME…I’M OUT! IF SHE CATCHES ME CHEATING…SHE SHOULD BE OUT TOO, BECAUSE IF SHE WAS TO LET ME GET AWAY WITH IT ONCE…I’LL PROBABLY DO IT AGAIN…FYI…TO THE FEMALES WHO STAY WITH DUDES BECAUSE HE’S TAKING CARE OF YOUR LAZY ASS….LOL

lol Shamel…i actually did that once. if i was married to him…then MAYBE just maybe i would consider staying. but then again, that is why i dont think i will ever get married in the first place…just easier to leave when you dont have those investments. that is why no matter how much i like/love the person im with, i always have my own life…my own money etc…because i could never imagine staying with a man simple because he is taking care of me…would never put myself in that position. if i ever stay with a man after he cheated on me…trust me im only staying long enough to think of revenge…petty but whatever. some people just need to be taught a valuable lesson. dont play with my emotions…not good for your health…(lol)…

EYE agree with SYLK and DMY. but the proof is in the pudding. think about the wives of NFL players,NBA players,rappers and entertainers, and male republican leaders. : ]

republicans are MONKIES(spelled that way on PURPOSE

LOL I call the other person and tell them they can have him. I don’t want or need a cheater.

it really dont matter, u can date bisexuals and they still complain… I am compelled to think, that 85% of the masses cheat, 10% its one sided and 5% actually none at all although I would have to put the 5% at (-3) ratio cause eventually someone tips the scale. Women(Or should I say the ones I have dealt with…which is alot) always try to make u feel guilty for not being committed, thats why I don’t mind if a potential partner swings, at the same time u dont get that same treatment in return. Forgiveness is love

Personally, I think Alicia can do better than this, but that’s just my opinion. Girl, is the dick good to you or what?

…And on this note, I’m going to walk away from this one.

ur kinda of rite but patrick is still cute