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“I’m not crazy! I do not need to go see someone! I don’t need pills!” Sistas, how many times have you yourself uttered those phrases or heard another females say them?  In the urban community we sarcastically joke with the phrase “such and such is crazy”. That person may truly have a need for psychiatric care or even counseling but the idea of actually going to see a psychiatrist is taboo in the hood. In fact some people would rather their mind fade away into oblivion then to have to reveal their thoughts, and or emotional issues. Not only does it make you appear to be weak but there also is a strong distrust for the White mental health community.

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Researchers at Oregon Health & Science University recruited women, who were 18 or older and considered themselves African-American, scored 15 or higher on the Patient Health Questionnaire Depression scale, and reported intimate partner violence at some time in their lives.

Thirty women participated in four private focus groups facilitated by African-American female community members of the research team. The results are published online in the American Journal of Public Health. Study participants were asked about their experiences and beliefs surrounding the relationship between violence and health in general, mental health, depression, and depression treatments. They also were asked to discuss their recommendations for improving depression care. The researchers found one issue dominated discussions about depression care — the participants’ deep mistrust of what they perceived to be a “White” health care system.

These results are not surprising. I can think of at least three sistas in my life right now who at some point should have sought some sort of counseling or therapy.  Black women have been misguided into thinking that this is about not allowing someone to pump you full of “crazy” pills or take all of their money. This is about your well being and mental stability. Not only that, sometimes, everyone needs someone to talk to. Sometimes, you need help with being able to cope with your emotions.

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Black women enter this world with burdens that their White counterpart does not have or may never experience. Yet, it is perfectly acceptable for a White woman to seek out counseling or mental health help if she feels she needs it. She is not seen as weak, loopy or crazy. The veil of perceived ultimate strength that has blanketed Black women for years comes with a double edged sword. Yes, it keeps us centered, and focused. It allows us to be the pillar of strength for those around us. It also keeps us sick, with high blood pressure from stress, not eating right, and anxiety. At some point there has to be a balance. There has to be a release for the Black woman. When will we learn that bottling up emotions, fears, anxieties, etc is not healthy? When will the walls of distrust for the medical community crash down so that the Black community as a whole can get the medical attention that they desire and deserve? Saying that you are not crazy does not take away from the fact that you may need psychiatric attention.  Seeking help does not make you crazy. I’m not promoting Black women popping pills. I am promoting Black women getting help, if there is a need for it.

Via: PsychCentral.com

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    of course there are some who really do need them. yes we know crazy when we truly meet crazy no denying that. but it is far from what this country is deeming eligible. they’re just concentrating on money is all

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/carteraunida/ carteraunida

    Going to see a professional doesn’t guarantee results for those who suffer mental illness. Consider that we still live in a racist and classist society. You may very well be paying a medical professional who is either in genuine, or does not have your best interests as a patient, in consideration. They may have a innate bias, prejudice against you for whatever reason; and you might not get the help, or the best help, from them. They may be all about revenue. We saw this recently when a dental practice specializing in children’s dentistry proceeded to carry out painful and unnecessary dental surgeries on children as young as 4, because the children were on some sort of medical subsidiary program and there was money in doing so.

    You have to find someone that understands your background. You have to really research the health care provider and whatever the prescribe you – all while suffering from depression. And considering all the pharmaceutical shenanigans going on today, I think counseling is better than taking pills – as pills from two anti-depressant makers were recently recalled for being defective.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SexcellentGal/ 1SexcellentGal

    If you are sitting around telling people you aren’t crazy it’s probably because you are. admitting you have a problem is numero uno because if you can’t admit to the issue, then you can’t move to the next step. If you didn’t know, now you do. And when you know better you do better.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SexcellentGal/ 1SexcellentGal

    Ok, this is a serious issue and I shouldn’t make light of it.If you do have a problem, feeling down, don’t want to do anything, quick to slap a bytch and all that do seek professional help. There is nothing with seeking help. It’s actually smart of you to seekhelp when it is needed before you end up like that woman out here who killed her famliy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crystalclearNY/ crystalclearNY

    Hmmm…It is always smart to seek help for Yourself, rather than waiting for someone else to take control of the situation…Needing mental help is nothing to be afraid or ashamed of…Not getting that help Is. Thats when people wind up Exploding, and usually taking someone else with them…Can anyone say “Columbine”? It does happen…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bluebeamerm3/ bluebeamerm3

    Yea, Teresa Perkins the bum thief and Karen Brown the stripper prostitute of Yeadon both are mentally touched as in looney straight jacket style, And all them black women who copy the white woman’s look and think that makes them “pretty” have lost their minds. Find your own idenitity, Black women look like fake white women then get mad at black men for looking at and dating white women, Its your fault, We figure why get a fake white woman, when we may as well get a real white woman. You copy themso hard, And white people snicker at you when you walk by with a hotcomb hard white woman styled hair do and or wigs and weaves all to a chieve a fake white look to be “pretty”… no you not pretty, Only real natural women of color is the TRUE pretty woman. crazy nappy bottoms and fake white top bishes.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Truth-Is-Told2u/ Truth-Is-Told2u

    Black Women And Mental Health: “I’m Not Crazy”

    NOPE YOU NOT CRAZY BUT,THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE WANT FOR YOU TO THINK SO THOUGH.

    ALL OF THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AND THEY HAVE THIS MENTAL DISORDER THAT HAVE THEM THINKING THAT THERE ISN’T ANYTHING WRONG WITH THEM BUT,IT IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THEM.

    I CAN NOT THINK OF THE NAME OF THAT MENTAL DISORDER AT THIS TIME THAT THOSE WHITE PEOPLE HAVE THOUGH.

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