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woman caught cheatingHave you ever noticed that people always want what they can’t have? I mean, I am single and I am sick of microwaving my dinners and watching bad TV while eating instead of having a stimulating conversation. But in terms of love, my friends in relationships are ready to jump the relation-ships. I wonder if this is the reason people cheat. Let’s face it: without sounding like a complete devil, cheating is exciting. It is a secret and it is something you can think about and then wryly smile to yourself as you think about your naughty and forbidden tryst the night before.

I’ve cheated – not because it was the cool thing to do, but mainly for three reasons: it was new, it gave me something my boyfriend couldn’t, and simply because I could. That sounds awful, but it’s the truth. I think it is unrealistic to think it’s possible to have all your wants and needs fulfilled by one person. I had one person who was mentally stimulating, and one who was very physically stimulating, so, seemingly, I had the best of both worlds. Mind you, this is coming from a very odd and embittered girl, but still, there it is.

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  • Anonymous

     The old skool term, some “strange”

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  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_VO3QJXH6NNXVZO7LISSRE66JYM victoria h

    what was the point of this? 

  • Anonymous

    exactly what I was thinking. It seems like the author is trying to justify her cheating ways rather then actually evaluate what the point of cheating is. Cheating is a selfish and self serving act. If you want to be with more than one person then dont pretend that the relationship is monogamous, be with someone who wants an open relationship or be alone.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dkh2/ dkh2

    To the HB staffer that wrote this article: Ok……………….*Sarcastically*

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Look for more HOMICIDES in YOUR local newspapers(in YOUR town, peeps) over THIS article……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crimzon5NY/ crimzon5NY

    word..take this article down..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/clydedaynja/ clydedaynja

    This was very stupid…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/gingerxxx86/ gingerxxx86

    Diseases, Diseases, Diseases!!!!!!!!!!!

    It’s fun and games until he/she comes home and gives you HIV/AIDS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Real-Talk470/ Real-Talk470

    THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING HOES WASN’T GOD’S MISTAKE THEY ARE  SATAN’S PURPOSE (in others words satan is a filthy devil himself).

    YOU BLACK MEN THAT CAN’T SEEM TO GET THE BLACK WOMAN THAT YA’LL ARE LOOKING FOR ARE ABOUT THE MAIN ONES THAT BE JUMPING OVER THOSE GATES LOOKING AROUND FOR THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN BUGS IN THEIR HAIR DOG AND SKUNK FUNKY FOUL SMELLING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN TO SLEEP AROUND WITH (in other words those black women don’t sleep around with every race of men that they see) THEY ARE NOT AS DISEASE PRONE AS THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN ARE.

    AND ALSO YOU BLACK MEN THAT WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MICRO WORMS INSIDE OF THEIR CONTAGIOUS BOOTY HOLE DOG AND SKUNK SMELLING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE THE BLACK MEN THAT SHOULD REALLY NOT BE TRUSTED BY THOSE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE FROM WHAT I CAN SEE YA’LL WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH JUST ABOUT ANYTHING WHICH IS CALLED BEING DISEASE PRONE (in other words ya’ll are some very filthy black men) SHAME ON YA’LL FOR NOT KNOWING A FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MICRO WORMS AND PARASITE CARRYING DOG WHEN YA’LL SEEN ONE.

    THOSE FILTHY DUMB HOES WILL CALL YOU BLACK MEN DOGS BUT,YA’LL ARE NOT THE DOGS THOUGH YA’LL JUST BE FOLLOWING UP BEHIND THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING DOGS.

    THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN HAS POISONED YOU BLACK MEN THAT SLEEPS AROUND WITH THEM MIND BECAUSE YA’LL DON’T SEEM TO KNOW HOW TO THINK BLACK ANYMORE.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SHUMLAI1/ SHUMLAI1

    The author of this piece seems to be very immature,I mean come on ,she cheated because she could,Damn,I dont want to meet a woman like that,no self discipline.

  • http://twitter.com/EbonyCali Ebony

    When I was in a relationship I never cheated even though he cheated on me and I had so many opportunities to cheat but I couldn’t find it in my heart to do it. If you want to have multiple partners (this goes for men and women) then you shouldn’t be married or have a relationship. It’s wrong to cheat (no matter if you’re a man or a woman). If you cheat on your mate then you don’t love that person. If my man is cheating on me then I am not satisfying him and if it comes down to competing with other women to keep my man then it’s not worth it and he wasn’t mind to begin with.

  • http://twitter.com/EbonyCali Ebony

    AMEN!

  • http://twitter.com/EbonyCali Ebony

    I guess HIV/AIDS and other STD’s doesn’t matter to cheaters because if it did people wouldn’t cheat.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    All it gets you is pregnant, beat up, killed or end up on Maury……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/supamanluva4eva/ supamanluva4eva

    If the author feels this way.  Why not date instead of being in a committed relationship with one person who does not give you everything you desire.  Be grown up and be honest.  Then you will have plenty of newness and excitement.

  • Madysiin_Journals

    Great thesis. Yes. I’ve noticed that in our society today, more people cheating on their mates, significant others, etc. And I think it’s a major waste of energy as well. Why not simply let the person go their own way and begin a new relationship with who you really want to be with? M

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DZDH3X76H5XZ7YW32PDYJYNQ3Y Cornell P

    In the real since it’s only consider cheatin when a man does it. When a woman goes outside her marriage for fulfillment it because her husbands short comings. When you are denied some thing that you need for happiness and or fulfillment your the one being cheated. Most men and women try to hold on to a relathionship were they have no desire or abilitie to satisfy, inspire, or uplife the other.   

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Elvira-Paris-Walker/1301671913 Elvira Paris Walker

    Open relationships are the same as cheating, with permission, isn’t it?

  • Anonymous

    Cheating should just be considered “THRILL SEEKING!”  In view of the transient nature of the ”AFFAIR” it usually has nuthin to do with “REAL LOVE!”  The only thing a female should worry about a male who ventures to cheat on her is catching a STD. Don’t ask me why a male violates his Woman’s trust. Frankly, it is a biological imperative for a male to mate, and it takes a great deal of mental, emotional and spiritual maturity to regulate this impulse. I read: “When you are born you are a blank slate, and all your life skills need to be instilled within you.”—-There is also is also an opinion that: “WHEN YOU ARE BORN YOU ARE ESSENTIALLY A WILD ANIMAL, AND NEED TO BE TAMED!” Men are essentially “HUNTERS”, and nuthin compares to the “THRILL” of a sexual encounter. Words cannot adequately express the sense of accomplishment “CHEATING” gives the individual who fights everyday for personal affirmation.  Let the record show that I am speaking totally from “MY BLACK PERSPECTIVE!”  The violation of your mates  ”TRUST” alone should make cheating a very . undesirable endeavor. I truly believe that “LOVE AND FRIEND” are 2 of the most misused and misunderstood words in our vocabulary. The ingredient that is usually absent in many relationships happens to be “RESPECT!” You cannot possible respect your partner (or what you’ve built together) if you venture to cheat on them. (nuff said) So sincere, Michael Sydney Perkins (aka SWEET P)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/naturalust/ naturalust

    and there you have it folks… Ms. bitter, the cheating author…

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_EY55W2OD6L7QP36F4TN3YI7AOQ dynamite360

    many ppl cheat because they can and than they make up more excuses of why they cheated.. how about being mature and ending your relationship b4 you bring someone else in it..

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_T6KR4AI6HGOU4IZKPMIK2CBKLM Marcus D

    People that are married or are in relationships (i hate that word) and cheat  are selfish sc**s of the earth ,they should be on their own if they want to mess around ,but thats the thing these a*****es don’t want to be on their own and want to inflict unnessessary misery on their unsuspecting  perspective partners.Men and women that cheat  should catch aids and die. 

  • http://profiles.google.com/sadgegoddess Donalda Goncalves

    That’s how I feel.  Had a married friend once, and she told me she was screwing the man who lived across the street. Wow.  Actually, my great uncle was murdered for cheating.  He was at her house and his wife came up, he answered the door and she shot him in the chest.  True story.  A few moments of bliss is not worth a lifetime of pain or gettin’ your ass killed over.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Rather get with someone who DOESN’T live CLose to me….but if they lived WAY far away, INVESTIGATE….there are CUCOOS out there, IJS……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Brandyfan322/ Brandyfan322

    Wow….to the writer of this post, ummmm wtf. How can you tell us that you think it’s impossible to love just one person and have them satisfy you. Maybe instead of trying to stand up for cheating, you should talk about ways to stay committed while keeping your partner committed as well. It’s very so possible and that’s what people should be striving for. I’ve never cheated and I was happy with one person because they did satisfy all of my needs. The mentality you have is one of the reasons why there are so many single mothers out there. This post is a Maury episode in blog form.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jaguarpaw63/ Jaguarpaw63

    You are a very, very sick man, you must have a lot of hatred in you, so much that you keep writing stuff like this down again and again. Racists like you have a very, very low selfesteem and probably not too much education. All I can do is to feel sorry for you, because I can imagine that you go to bed with hate in your heart and you probably wake up with the same feelings. I think you just don´t know how stupid and ignorant it is, to hate somebody, just because they are another race as you are. Believe it or not, but there are good and also bad people in every race, this is just the way it is and your hatred on here will not change that.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_QRVUNZ2GVPVXBYAOHEKY2SRDLY Harvette Ellington

    Thank you!

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