I’m so sad for Monica. It’s terrible to go throught a breakup.

She will get through this by the grace of God and it is his loss,she deserves better than that if he is bringing drama into her life.

From the first time I saw pictures of him he looked like he was saying, “I dont REALLY want to be here”. Sorry it didnt work out…hardly any relationships do anymore.

Exactly BigGirl…anyone who saw her reality show, knew dude was shady! lol

What’s up with all these STUPID azz broads who put making BABIES before making sure he’s COMMITMENT & HUSBAND material! What is this…? The new famous baby momma thing to do? No wonder many of our young girls heads are SO screwed up!!

You can get RID of the man easier than you can his SEED(s)…so THINK long and think WISELY before laying up before really knowing him or being committed!

Of course it’s a hurting feeling but I know that with God on your side that you will get through it. Like she stated, “God does EVERYthing for a purpose that we may not understand at the time but HE will reveal it to you in HIS time.” Keep your head up,focus on your career, your children and HIM and everything will work out. Be blessed.

acting out as wife and going along w/ these ultra long engagements never results in an actual marriage
though iv heard of some exceptions to this rule, it’s not enough to even be worthy of mentioning
good luck monica w/ the next time around

I am so glad that the God in you shines so bright that anything that tries to come against you fails. Keep your head. You are a wonderful child of God. I look up to you, even tho we are like the same age. I admire you, your integrity, individuality, inspiration and spirit. The main focus was to resemble Christ within your response in your storm and you did, flawlessly. I respect that. That shows me God is real, No matter what we go thru it is still God’s battle, not mine. He can handle it.

Monica is so sophisticated and distinguished with the way she handles things. Although it didn’t work out, I am sure she will be okay.

Damn some couples you just don’t want to see break up.

I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THIS SEPARATION BETWEEN THESE TWO. SHE IS A WOMAN OF GOD AND HE IS TAKING THEM THRU THIS FOR A REASON. STAY STRONG AND PRAYERFUL.

Men Should not propose if they are not ready! Women should keep their legs close before marriage!

@ju_c_red…Monica does seem to be a woman who loves God. And dont get me wrong, I’m not judging her or claiming to be a preacher or something. But women who love the Lord and speak often about His word as if they live by it have got to stop picking out what they want to live by. Children are indeed blessings…but sex and children outside of marriage is not in God’s will for us and we should not expect blessings on ungodly unions. I’m sure Monica knows this and probably knows that he was not the man that God had for her because if he were he would have first not expected or accepted sex from her before marriage and would have married her long ago. I myself know God but dont live by His word as I should. I dont steal or kill or anything like that but there is so much more to living by His word and expecting Him to bless our relationships. And believe me, I am very careful about speaking on what I expect from Him when I am not giving Him what He expects from me.

Not hatin but she looked like the only one n love on her reality show n he just looked like he was “there” she is so talented and doesn’t get the credit she deserves for her music I hope she finds the right man that will treat her like she so rightfully deserves. I can’t wait for her album!

Oh.. Please.. She didn’t love him enough to marry him anyway.. It was a convinence thing.. She’s coming out with seems to be a great cd.. And.. what does he do again????..

It crazy but all you ladies are right..Monica know what’s good for her and she knows when something is not.. God has a plan for her she just needs to keep trusting and keeping her faith …seek first the kingdom of God and all the rest will come…

@ Hazel_eyes27…yes! that’s exactly what I saw too. @ 123step a convenience thing?? What is that??? Do women really lay down and have TWO babies by a “convenience thing”? I dont think so. I think she loved him and wanted to marry his ass. I mean REALLY…she’s still making excuses for him. Talking about, ” he was put under a lot of harsh scrutiny during their entire relationship and I’m sure that was not easy”. He probably was put under harsh scrutiny by her loved ones who could see how much she loved him and wanted to be married to him, but could see that he wasnt even that into her. Hell, I could see it, and I dont even KNOW them!

Classy lady! To bad he didn’t realize wha a queen he had. I wish u all the best and love that new song! Keep shining…

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Do you listen to your own songs….you “Still Standing” and things happen…..your relationship/marraige aint the only one falling apart due to the “Jumpoffs”, girl just move on and focus on you and your family. He’s a good dad cool, that means he will be there for the kids…he fell victim like all the rest! She was “Monica” way before him, and she will still be “Monica” after! keep yo head up! Sorry to hear that though, cuz she been thru so much already!

Okay, let’s be real here… Marriage doesn’t stop anyone from cheating. let’s just say at least she found out before she was married to him. Yall need to quit it..

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I hate that she has to talk about her private life amongst strangers. She is a lovely person with a lovely spirit. She’ll be fine!!!

oh and big girl gone good…. watch your mouth and stop passing judgment…. just because you use the name of GOD does not make you perfect either. All relationships do not go bad! FYI!! maybe only all of yours do. watch your mouth!

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