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HoneyMag.com sat down with Tiny and Toya, stars of their own eponymous hit BET reality show, and two of the more popular baby mama’s of the entertainment industry, to talk about relationships, goals, and their upcoming season.

Aptly titled “Love Lockdown,” as their lovers have either recently been incarcerated or just getting out, read below to see what they had to say:

How soon is too soon to get intimate with a guy?
Toya: When you first meet him like in the first 8 months. I think that’s too soon. Some of them just want to talk to you because of who you know, who you are, what you’re doing so you have to test them out. I want to know if you like me or who I am associated with. You have to feel them out.

Bad guy or good guy? Who are you more attracted to and why?
Tiny:
Honestly I’ve always been into the bad boy – I can’t lie. Something about the bad boy just attracts me, just gets my attention you know? There are some good guys that I can think of now that can be sexy, now that I’m older. But when I was younger, it would always be the bad boy.

Toya: I don’t like a softy softy but I don’t like a thug either. The reason why is because I don’t need any thugs around me. I have a daughter. I need someone who is well-established, not into a lot of BS, and very family-oriented. Someone that is cool and not on no dumb stuff. You can’t just bring everybody around your kids. I’m dating. I need someone I can bring home to my daughter. Not just anybody can come around her. READ MORE BELOW!

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Toya, what have you’ve learned from your relationship with Lil’ Wayne?
Toya: I learned a lot. I watched Wayne go into different phases. Each phase I learned something new. As far as his love for women; he’s not really a one woman man. I had to deal with that. I am kind of happy because he made me stronger. No BS. I learned a lot from being Lil’ Wayne’s wife. As long as I’ve held grudges I’ve learned to let it go.

What’s your philosophy on love and dating?
Tiny:
One thing I always say for a relationship is that however you start is how you should finish. I hate for a man to start a relationship and things seem so nice and then it gets old and he stops doing all those things. If those are the things that made me fall in love with him, then he needs to do those things periodically in the relationship or the relationship will go stale. I think that really helps you feel wanted when it’s old.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ariesblood79/ Ariesblood79

    REALLY!!!! Both of them got involved with two of the most thuggish men out there, and lil wayne just keep his “BAD BOY” title! Tiny she hood and ghetto anyway so I dont put it past her that she like them bad! Toya seem like a hoodrat who trying to change…but tiny girl who you kidding! So when her daughter come home with a thug what she gonna say….with the track record they got,neither one of them can give me advice…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Ive seen a clip or two of their show, hence I’ve heard both of them speak…And umm the moment I pay attention to what tweedle dee and tweedle dumber have to say about relationships, somebody co*ck back the double barrel and shoot me right in the brain where the problem must be…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EccentricFlower/ EccentricFlower

    lol @ ariesblood79 i kind of have to agree with her! ive watched the show a few times, and if im not mistaken tiny was dating a thug who got locked up for selling dope?? SOrry ladies but, you really cant give no advice to no one >{<

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ariesblood79/ Ariesblood79

    Thank you@ ECCENTRICFLOWER….I am not from atlanta, but been here for about 10yrs. so technically…..but anyway alot of people I have met, that went to school with tiny, said she always was a ‘Hoodrat” and she was “Loose”…I dont knw how true it is, but these two are not who I want to give me advice…..now if it was advice on how to keep dealing with a nikka who stay in and out of jail….maybe I’ll call them!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AztecGoddess/ AztecGoddess

    @ CaliFemme23….. LMAO again. I can always count on you girl to be on point and still make me giggle loudly at work!!!

    Can we give her an AMEN ladies!!! LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Wilb4real/ Wilb4real

    AMEN!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    lol ya’ll funny

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lover_Girl1st/ Lover_Girl1st

    I’m so tired of tiny & toya..Who are they?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lover_Girl1st/ Lover_Girl1st

    I agree with califemme23..LOL..Dumb and dumber..Please don’t let them start talking and one finsh the other sentence..Neither one of them make sense.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FocusedIn07/ FocusedIn07

    Man, they’re all over the place with what they want!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SexcellentGal/ 1SexcellentGal

    not agaisnt Tiny, who is she anyways, other than TI’s baby mommma, i think …but she kinda ugly

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    * months. I’ll outta there before that…….
    Tiny is a B-U-T-T-A-F-A-C-E…….and theil bodies rocks-like Wilma Flinstrone!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lookin4agDman/ Lookin4agDman

    Who tha f**k are they to give relationship advice….they get 1 show and all of a sudden they love experts!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Zaakira37/ Zaakira37

    Well everyone let’s be nice. Tiny was out before we even knew there was a T.I. so let’s at least stay true to that. Just because you don’t always see them in the light doesn’t mean they are not doing anything with their lives. As far as the relationship advice we everyone is different so who cares about that. Toya on the other hand I can’t say what is motive is. It definitely appear that she is trying to come from under Waynes shadow and who can blame her for that? At the end of the day when Tiny is riding better and doing better than half of the ppl that have something negative to say about her do you really think she gives a f**k? MF’s are going to talk s**t and that is what keep them in the limelight good or bad so whose the fool?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MS2222GA/ MS2222GA

    Why put these two hood baby mama on the map, especially Toya, without Mr. Thuggish as Lil Wayne you will be absolutely nobody so don’t try an act if you going down a straight line now because the man you with now (Memphitz) just ganster as Wayne. Only time Toya ever look good is when James Hardy stood next to her but after he attended her B’day Bash and was surrounded by a bunch project rats he got the hell on…I can’t blame him. But one thing about Ms.Tiny, granted she is country but at least she stick with one Thug and don’t get all on her twitter everyday bragging about how she spent her money unlike Toya that all she do is brag. She is from New Orleans and personally I think Atl needs to stop put her on the map because she is nobody. Advice from her…I think not.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Stan_Vinyl/ Stan_Vinyl

    Very responsible ladies… thank you for showing signs of life in the black woman’s ability to seperate bullshyt from what’s acceptable and using logic coupled with reasonable deduction!

    It’s still on life support but thank you for wiggle the toes!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/butterswirl502/ butterswirl502

    im with cali23 no more to be said.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EccentricFlower/ EccentricFlower

    LMAO, yall are crazy!!!! but its real honest!>{<

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/OnenOnlymeme/ OnenOnlymeme

    they both suck!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sub-Negro/ Sub-Negro

    There is way to much hate on here. IDK much about Toya other than she looks way better than Tiny.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kyss001/ Kyss001

    I smell haters..simply because, if you were in Tiny and Toya’s shoes, you would probably feel then same way as they do. I know a lot of us young black women have experienced dating mr wrong. I can respect what they have to say, but at the end of the day, it’s up to you to make the final call. So b***hes stop hating on these ladies. OMG!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/HOTMAMA2365/ HOTMAMA2365

    I DON’T MIND THE ADVICE THEY GAVE OUT… BECAUSE THEIRS SUMBODI OUT THERE LIKE MYSELF WHO’S LOOKING 4 ADVICE …. EVERY ADVICE SOMEONE GIVES OUT ..THERE’S ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO CAN RELATE TO WHAT THEY HAVE GON THROUGH…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cherronw/ cherronw

    Hmm I think I will follow my own advice, but thanks

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LoveWisdomCourage/ LoveWisdomCourage

    LMBO @ cherron w’s comment

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Esoteric_Dredz/ Esoteric_Dredz

    HelloBeautiful, we give a damn about these two birds….Why? Sorry but anyone who pays any attention to two women who have spent their adult lives dating and procreating with felons needs their head examined.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cubsfan1973/ cubsfan1973

    Come on now, these two tricks are not newswworthy!!! Tiny is a has been from Xscape and she looks like Magilla Gorilla and Toya — she has done nothing but bring one of the millions of kids Lil Wayne has!!!
    Like these two tricks are now relationship counselors – they are just hoodrats!!!
    Tiny needs to go back to school and brush up on her English skills!!!

    WAIT A MINUTE, THESE TRICKS STILL HANG OUT WITH THUGS!!!
    MONEY DOES NOT BUY YOU CLASS!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoularFlarez/ SoularFlarez

    “how you start is how you finish” (an elder told me da same thing)

    and I know its ALOT of thirsty hyeena azz dudes out there but females gotta bring more to the table than just p*ssy or the promise of p*ssy….

    and look for SUBSTANCE more than flash and fluff.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoularFlarez/ SoularFlarez

    oh and FEMALES CHOOSE…..

    so dont complain that he aint s**t cuz YOU chose him…..

    just choose better next time :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Blakxkalibur/ Blakxkalibur

    @1SexcellentGal & who ever else don’t know

    Tiny used to be in group called “Xscape” back in da mid 90′s. They used to be the S**T before they broke-up and start replacing members. Check out this site: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xscape_(group)#Hummin.27_Comin.27_at_.27Cha_.281992-1994.29

    I used to love Tiny’s ass to death, but now when see her, its like “DAMN… WTF dun happend to YO ass???”. Toya, I don’t know much about her, and really don’t care about who she knows. But… She can get it.

    If you all get a chance, check their music out and see for your selves

    P.S. Have y’all noticed that Kandi looks alot better then than she does now? WOW, wtf was the eattin’ at that point? Seems like an epidemic!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Blakxkalibur/ Blakxkalibur

    “wtf was THEY eattin’ at that point”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/king-gucci-gudda/ king-gucci-gudda

    Toya: I don’t like a softy softy

    aka nice dude who will treat her well do nice things for her
    on a regular basis is not worthy of her she needs a man that
    will kurse her out on occasion maybe swing a punch or two
    at her call her out her name hates ignorant hoodrats like this

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/madippy24/ madippy24

    They are probably not the girls you want to go to for advice. We all know that the only reason anyone is taking them seriously is because they have a tv show and because of T.I and Lil Wayne. Most women are just trying to find out how Tiny and Toya ended up catching the eye of their man and ex hubby. Im pretty sure people would like to know how to attract their very own celebrity or soon to be celebrity (I’m talking in terms of how they got the very first date/look) and Hey, I used to love Xscape too, but lets be real. If it wasn’t for TI we wouldn’t even care about Tiny and who would even really know Toya without Lil Wayne. I need to hear love advice from someone who is in a long time, loving and monogamous relationship. I can get a cheating man on my own.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/madippy24/ madippy24

    oh, and I laugh at the answer for how soon is too soon for intimacy. How many times do you believe she actually waited for at least 8 months? Most of the people that want to date a celebrity or a person that dated a celebrity wants to date them for who they are. It’s almost impossible to tell which of the suitors are truly interested in the person and not the famous people they hang with or their money.

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