So true! Frankly, I’m sick of the way a few bad apples have spoiled the bunch. To be fair, it works both ways; I hear black women bash black men. As I see it, people are not working on themselves to be better people–hence, better partners for a good person. They also are looking for the wrong things in people.

I realize this is the point SouthernSwagger was trying to make, but he lost me when he wrote that he supports black men for not marrying black women. Frankly, the blame-game is getting old, on both ends. It is only a matter of time before Phaedra Parks realizes that this guy will bring her down, but this has no effect on my day-to-day living, nor should it have one on SouthernSwagger’s.