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Gary Dourdan

Gary Dourdan of “CSI” fame was the alleged victim of domestic violence Tuesday afternoon, and his much smaller girlfriend was cuffed and taken into custody … law enforcement sources tell TMZ.

Apparently the cops were called to the actors home and when they arrived they found Dourdan all scratched up!! They arrested his girlfriend Maria Asis del Alamo and booked her on misdemeanor domestic battery.

Maria is 5’8″, 110 lbs. Gary is 6’2″ and his fighting weight is 190. She has since been released.

GALLERY: Gary Dourdan does Fashion Week

COUPLED UP: Gary Dourdan and his girl in Ibiza

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/drubabi69/ drubabi69

    Now if he whipped her ass, it would be a whole different story!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexynickey/ sexynickey

    They don’t play in CT @ drubbi69 I cut my hubby and I went to jail and i was defending myself. they were giving me hell. But needless to say i got my charges dropped because they couldn’t prove that i wasn’t defending myself. Look at who she is and look at Tiger Woods wife, she didn’t go to jail at all. The justice system sucks really.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/leunka/ leunka

    he did the right thing by not hitting her back and calling the police because if she would have had one scratch he was going to jail no matter how much he was beat up

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    He should get off of that crack rock. We need to start putting more women in jail for this stuff. We have laws and they should apply across the board, to both sexes. Plus he gets paid for his face, so she damaged his money making asset.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AllBizSumPlay_1/ AllBizSumPlay_1

    Just As A Man Shouldn’t , A Woman Shouldn’t Get A Pass Either !

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lucky_Jester777/ Lucky_Jester777

    what kills me about this story… and more so, how the body of the story they made out like a fight promoter… Trying to compare the size between the two… its almost like they wanted dude to fight back or something. Like he punked out because it didnt lift a finger. How because its a women they say ‘alleged’ victim and he has scratches to prove it… who else was arrested besides her?
    If someone you are with makes you so mad you want to hit them instead of F***n the issh out of em, then its no longer a relationship… you need to move on before things like this (or worse) happens. The original post from TMZ was like they are pulling sides for fairness and excusing the fact that violence is violence regardless how big or who is doing it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Baby-Baby/ Baby-Baby

    If he would have hit her azz back yall know he would have been arrested and she would be sittin pretty at home and his azz would still be locked up. He did, yall know he could have stumped the shyt out of her.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Lucky_Jester777, Mmmm, I peeped that size,weight classification..What I think they were trying to convey is that because she is a woman there is NO WAY she could have done him any damage. Thats BS..I’m glad he walked away like a man and let HER take the ‘fall’ for her actions. Women need to grow up and get off that “I can hit you because in a woman” crap…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kee-tee/ Kee-tee

    He HAD to walk. His rep got a little damaged when he got busted drugged up in his car or something like that a few years ago. If he would have looked at her wrong it would have been over. I thought he was through after the drug thing. I know he was probably HEATED but it’s good to see he held back. Guess he saw the whole Chris Brown drama unfold b4 his eyes.
    …another thing
    why does this site has to say he was “Beaten” by this chick??? They must be trying to start something between the males & females here. I don’t think Gary reads HB so he won’t get pissed at the title…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mizz214/ mizz214

    He did the smart thing by calling the police. Women have that “I can hit you because in a woman” mentality (partly) because men rarely call the police on them. Fellas I know the last person you wanna talk to after fighting with your woman is the police, but if you wanna level the playing field on issues like this you better start.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexynickey/ sexynickey

    I agree with all the comments. LOL @ Lucky Jester you see they put “his fighting weight is 190″. U gotta love it… but seriously the same should apply to both sides and i’m really mad as hell they didn’t do shyt to Tiger Woods wife….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Kee-tee, I hear u. ‘Beaten’ was way too far when the actual story says ‘scratches’…But I guess they had to get us to click on the damn story some kind of way! lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cream_91/ Cream_91

    Being “scratched up” isn’t the same as being beaten up. Either way, he should be commended for calling the police as opposed to striking her.

    We don’t know what it was all about, but the fact that she’s much smaller than him hardly matters.
    “It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog.”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoCo_Nes12/ SoCo_Nes12

    total bs that the writer tried to discredit the “victim” by mentioning his weight as others have commented. Don’t get it twisted! Just cuz punkass RiRi didn’t “do anything” as she claims, she js took it which I find to be complete bs, don’t mean a woman can’t handle herself or at least lessen the attack by FIGHTING back! Watch True Romance if you really want to see some motivation cuz that woman got hers in! If women can be in labor for hours on top of hours and have babies come out their relatively smaller holes, mofo we can throw down. We can talk about whatever js don’t put ur f**king hands on me! That’s 100% real talk!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NappyBoy25/ NappyBoy25

    NOW I GUESS HE NEEDS TO GO READ THE SAME BOOKS AS C.B.?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aprilnette28/ aprilnette28

    I still love him from his “Different World” days

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blackharlemite/ blackharlemite

    HEY like da song goes who ever gets da phone first da other ones going 2 jail he got 2 da phone first

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hakim_ii/ hakim_ii

    NOw if He had hit her he would if been looked at as a “wife beater” but instead he did the right thing… and they make him look like a punk.. Do you think that is right?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ilovemykids75/ Ilovemykids75

    I think whoever put their hands on that person they should go to jail dont matter if you are man or woman. because that where people get kill if they dont stop putting their hands on each other.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DameDivalicious/ DameDivalicious

    Good for him by doing the right thing not to fight back and call the cops on her. If more men just man up and call the cops on the women that attacked them then we won’t being hearing people like Saint Oprah preaching on about domestic violence against women. She have Rhianna on her show a couple of times which just got on my last nerves.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ihateinteracial/ ihateinteracial

    WELP HES A HALF BREED WHAT ELSE CAN I TELL YA

    THEY HAVE NO BACK BONE THEY R WEAK BECAUSE THEY GOT THAT TAINT IN EM

    IF HS DUM A.S.S

    KNEW MARTIAL ARTS HE COULD OF CONSTRAINED HER WITHOUT BRUSING HER OR SCRACTHING HER

    I WISH A WOMAN WOULD RAISE A HAND TO HIT ME

    THE ONLY TIME A WOMAN CAN TOUCH MY FACE

    IS IF WE R SPARRING WITH NO GLOVES ON

    OR WE HAVING ROUGH A.S.S SEX AND SHE SLAPS MY FACE WHILE SHE BOUNCING ON MY WOOD OR IM SLAMMINGHER HEAD UP AGAISNT THE WALL FOR SOME ROUGH STYLE FOURPLAY

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsTjaye/ MsTjaye

    Mizz241 & CaliFemme…my sentiments EXACTLY. Women can’t have it both ways. We want to be equal when its convenient and pull the chick card on mess like this. Now, I am lmao at another sweet non black female without an attitude poppin off on another one, but that giggle aside…women need to keep their hands to themselves or take a lick back. If a smaller man hauls off on a larger man and ends up getting his behind beat, then everyone would say “he should have had enough sense to not hit a man bigger than he is”, so women are not stupid, so if they haul off on a man bigger than they are then the same rules should apply. However, until they do men need to start locking them up for assault until women learn there is a penalty for their actions, too.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/too2sweetCA/ too2sweetCA

    well im not going to sit here and let her go up side my head because i been good to her and this the same thing with chris brown and rhianna if that take place then stop being a sucker for love and be like Me a part time lover this would be a mis understanding all good guys choose these violence woman i guess she want a nigga to put a fist in her muthf**king head so he can be behind bars for a long time and lose your carrer Gary Dourdan u did the right thang now u find out that ur mate is violence what u mess up is when al 1st met and date u should ask her about her last boyfriend and what they did so u dont follow the lead of her ex boyfriend Love is a deju. if it happen it the current it happen to the present u did good and call the cops to remove that trash off ur lawn b4 it even worse so Good luck on ur new search?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Take_it_all/ Take_it_all

    For those of you who can’t put one and one together, if he had hit her his

    career would probably be over…smart move on his part.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/friscod30/ friscod30

    Once she put her hands on him he should of defended himself and fought back. I dont care if your a woman or a man. Men dont lift weights with their face. If you hit a man and scratch him in the face its going to hurt. Women and men need to learn that if you result to violence then you get what you deserve. Everybody should be allowed to defend themself anyway possible

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ThaM8/ ThaM8

    Like Chris Rock say ” I won’t hit a women but, i’ll drag the hell outta her @ss” or something to that effect. Take_it_all has a point and the shiz ain’t cool when it’s something that can cause your career or hamper it in a negative aspect

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ihateinteracial/ ihateinteracial

    for all u non martial art knowing i.d.i.o..t.s

    constrainning and hitting r two diffrent things

    d.u.m f.u.k.s

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crlbrazil/ crlbrazil

    He looks like she’s been beating him for a while.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shanikqua/ Shanikqua

    Why are u stating stats on them like it matters how big or little she is to his size? He showed he was a man and didn’t put his hands on a female, I know plenty of women that have been getting away with slapping, scratching, kicking, etc, being violent to men and it’s like it’s ok. If more got locked up for it, then it would stop, if it’s that bad, leave. SMH

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hanma1/ Hanma1

    nowadays you can’t even constrain a woman from hitting you. you gotta let them hit you or leave and get clowned by letting a woman hit you and last but not least slap them up for thinking they can stand to a man, but then be labeled a woman beater and in jail. those your 3 options. choose wisely hahahahahaha!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ChoclatLust/ ChoclatLust

    I wonder what he did to make her that mad! No woman is gonna go off like that for no reason…he did somethin. Didn’t he get arrested last year for possession of an illegal substance??? As far as we know he could have been beaten on her and she just snapped on his ass one day. Thats ashame….and hes such a sexy man…damn. Lmao!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chocolategirlga/ chocolategirlga

    I am glad she was arrested. It does not matter how tall he or she was or their weights but had he tried to restrain her she woulda just made it look worse and they both woulda been arrested. He appears to be the victim and that doesn’t make him less than a man. In kindergarten they teach boys AND girls to keep their hands, feet, and objects to themselves. Lots of folks need a refresher course.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Pocahontas_/ Pocahontas_

    Wooooow! SMH!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SheFly69/ SheFly69

    The police should have cuffed her ass. They should have cuffed Rhianna. Chris got a call from one of his other honey’s and she couldn’t take it. Rhianna played the victim and s**t. What makes these women, some of htem think they are the only one with a you no what and know how to use it? These kinds of women make it hard for decent women.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FocusedIn07/ FocusedIn07

    An article with a deliberately misleading headline was written by the “Senior” Editor?! What the hell kind of journalism is that?!

    And props to Gary for not retaliating. As everyone else noted, hitting her would’ve been a kiss of death for his career, esp. with the drug arrest from a year or two ago. Look at how many endorsements Chris Brown lost in the last year…even in self-defense, Gary would’ve been screwed, esp. with the weight disproportion (which BTW is irrelevant to the article).

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/javon707/ javon707

    kudos to the women who aren’t thinking one sided. I had a fight with a live in girl friend who came home drunk from the bar. after failed attempts to get to calm down, I had to physically remove her from the house. she then took the neighbor’s vacuum cleaner and threw it throw our bed room window nearly missing the baby’s crib.

    I made sure the baby was ok (wasnt mines biologically but I treated him as mines) then I slapped her because I was mad she put the baby in harm’s way. the cops came over and was about to cuff me until she opened her mouth and the officer got a whiff of the alcohol on her breath and arrested her instead.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JAHTRISTAN25/ JAHTRISTAN25

    SEE THIS IS THE BULLS**T IM TALKING BOUT SO IF THIS DUDE WOULD OF BUST HER ASS HE WOULD BE STAMPED A WOMAN BEATER AND PROBABLY KICKED OFF OF THE C.S.I SHOW…..BUT GOOD SELF CONTROL BY MY MANS THO DONT HIT HER JUST WALK AWAY DAWG

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/fireball1986/ fireball1986

    wtf is the point of putting all his info on there like he was suppose to hit her back i usually read hello beautiful but to this has got me hot! so what he was suppose to knock the hoe out? yall corny as f**k get some real news like what the trick sentence looking like cause if i remember chris brown had to pick up trash n shyt!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/STYLISHDIVA777/ STYLISHDIVA777

    SHE WAS TRYING TO BEAT THE CRACK OUT OF HIM. LMAO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Raheem_nyc/ Raheem_nyc

    this is where you sometimes have to fight a bit.ch like a nic.ca. i refuse to stand there and get hit by a broad. bit.ches suppose to know there place, and know they cant beat a man and just step down.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Pretty_Mami_83/ Pretty_Mami_83

    now this is funny ….he probably deserved it….or maybe that b*tch just crazy as hell and decided to just beat the sh*t outta him :) bahahahaha ole man beater ass .bahahahahahahahahaa…pure entertainment for me PURE!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nubiian_queen/ nubiian_queen

    There is no humor in domestic violence. I give this man props for not beating the hell out of her. I find it ironic that this blog stated their stats and giving the article that tone of beating the hell out her would be ok. We already hear enough about Chris & Rihanna, Tiger and his wife.Let’s applaud the men that don’t hit or beat instead of embarassing them with ridicule.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    Wait, wait, wait am I believing my eyes here? You tell me HB, a “Non-Black” woman put her hands on a “black man”? You mean to tell me that “non black women” have tempers(that leads to violence) and attitude problems? Or is she excused because dude deserved it or is it that she’s non black so she excused? So basically she will not be considered a bitter b***h like the rest of us black women? Wow I am loving this article not because I approve of violence. But because it’s showing our “black brothas” (the ones that only believe this kind of behavior exist in black women only)that bitterness, rage, anger and violence does not only come from black women but non black women as well!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KeizerSosay/ KeizerSosay

    As a man he did the right thing. I’ve had to call the police on 2 women in my life. I’m 6’3″ and 250lbs, what the hell do I or any man look like beating on a woman. There is no reason either sex should engage in physical altercations with the opposite. As a black male, the last thing I want is for ANY illegal accusation be made against me and the authorities be called. Whether youre found guilty or not there still will be a report made and filed against you which can follow you into your future. Brotha was right in calling the police. Whats unfortunate is that to many people will view him as being some kind of punk for taking that course of action.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/candy_apple_blk/ candy_apple_blk

    ok so was he supposed to haul off and kick her ass? chicks can get really mad and do some dumb crap when arguing. They make it sound like he was a poor victim. This s**t happens all the time. Why discuss her weight and height. who cares. he did the right thing not going upside her head. she needs some help with her agression issues. hope he dont go back to her until she gets therapy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/javon707/ javon707

    @jazzy

    thank you I was just about to address that why are some of the women saying “he probably deserved it”. In my opinion, non black women are worse because they can get away with it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BAMA_81/ BAMA_81

    smart man…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/still_2cool/ still_2cool

    i wonder if he is still on heroin

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dream_angel2213/ dream_angel2213

    He did what he should have done and that was to call the police. As we know this isn’t the first time and it won’t be the last. So now what, is he going to stay in an abusive relationship or get out? There was no point in calling the police if you are not finished with the relationship, take the beating and go on. If he is tired of getting beat ,move on and fine something better. No one , male or female deserves to be beaten but when you let it continue,you are saying it is ok.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/omai70/ omai70

    nobody put their hands on me sorry!
    after the fight
    as soon as i hear the paw paw coming through the door
    i would start crying and s**t i mean really hollering
    and ripe my clothes to make it look like the b***h attacked my ass

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kuchicruckngdnglng/ kuchicruckngdnglng

    damn.. as I scroll down to read the comments I see a picture of Rihanna. I guess he did the right thing… Now let her kick rocks..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jessv5203/ jessv5203

    He’s a very smart man…if he would’ve fought back or even touched her to stop her from hitting him that woluld’ve some s*** going down

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Deletha_J/ Deletha_J

    lol but im glad he didnt hit her back they would have defamed him like they did chris brown.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    Wow! and they(black men)say their’s only crazy black women in this world, with this sort of behavior? Well “black men”, going over to the other side will not make it better on you. Because “they“(non black women) are just as crazy and derange(as you can see, lol) as one of us(I think they have us beat though)! Hell he better be lucky that he only got his ass kicked! Because he could have been another ” Steve McNair” case. But hey, black women will always be consider as the most craziest lunatics on the planet earth! Well…, what can I say, that’s how some of our “black men“ label us(it’s funny because statistically speaking their are more “non” black women in prison and on death row for murder! Hmm………..? It kinda make’s you think huh? Who’s the real psychos out there. Hey black men have you ever heard of any “black women” as a serial killer? Well I haven’t but I have heard of “non” black women being a serial killer like “Mary Ann Cotton”,”Marybeth Tinning”,”Nannie Doss, “Belle Gunness”,”Dorothea Puente”,”Aileen Wuornos” and the list go’s on. But we(black women) will still always remain the “craziest” race of women of all time! Lmao! Here’s a little humor for some of you black men(especially the ones that hate us), when dating or marrying a “non black woman”(preferably white) have two things in your possession 1) a firearm on you at all times. And 2) a insurance policy for your love ones to put you away! Because if she kill’s you, your love ones will have to put you away and if you kill her the police will put you away(by death of course)! ROTFLMAO!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Luxurious_02/ Luxurious_02

    See this is an example of double standards(as far as reactions to the incident by the person who posted this article). Feeling the need to include the size and weight of his girlfriend implying that she couldn’t possibly harm this man or any man bigger than she is. That’s pure ignorance. Bytches will find ways to attack a man…ever heard of slaps, punches, scratches, weapons(household items, knives, guns, etc), and definitely something creative while they are sleeping. It doesn’t mean they were physically fighting like a boxing or wrestling match and she won. Then i could see why the weight issues could come up. But if she attacked his ass and he didn’t attack her back(which is the smart thing) then duh he will get beat up.However, i hope he pinned that bytch back if she was slapping or punching him and left.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsLaLady/ MsLaLady

    I’m just wondering could this possible be tie up with his extra currirulum activties ( Why CBS cut his character out in a money making show). Because extra curriculum activities and usage can cause a person to act crazy in a dearrange behavior under the influence. Just saying. If this is true its time to step my sister before it get heavier.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/gccruzer/ gccruzer

    They’ll be back in each other’s arms before nightfall of the day of the arrest, and then they’ll fight again, be back in each other’s arms, and so on and so on….stupid idiots!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IBreatheU09/ IBreatheU09

    What a waste of a beautiful, talented black man!

    He so damaged. So empty. Sad. Sad. Sad.

    I am sure she has been released and he had the charges dropped no doubt.

    Some sick twisted like foreplay/ role playing madness they are into.

    What’s next: a drug-infested “make up session” with DOA to the morgue.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    Lol @IBreatheU09 funny you said that ” a drug-infested “make up session” with DOA to the morgue”. Being that she is non black 9 times out of 10 she will pull a Steve McNair on his ass!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EccentricFlower/ EccentricFlower

    How sad, a damn shame!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Yasmine086/ Yasmine086

    Yay… call the cops on her!!! Men have to stop letting women get away because they end up in jail when they snap and hit them back.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Game4iT/ Game4iT

    Smart move on his part .fellas soon as she start trippin call the po po on that ho. forget about pride because your pride will have you in jail. itz some crazy ass women out here who actually want you to beat thier ass and get mad if you dont hit them I let a ex push and slap me around wantin me to hit her i was man enough to leave with out putting a scratch on her..guess what i still got arrested the next day (at work) hoez lie, she lied to evereone to make me look like i was whoppin her azz , one of the officers didnt beleive her the other one was an a-hole..long story you can see a year later it still pisses me off..lol a lot of time and going to court could have been avoided if I had call the police after she slapped the hell out of me I let my manhood get in the way and paid for it ..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Empress_Scorpio/ Empress_Scorpio

    @ Jazzylicious, I agree with you 100%. I couldn’t have said it any better, you almost took the words right out of my mouth. We hear about all these black women being molly wopped by our men but we are the ones labeled as crazy or bad tempered. ANNDDD – Any time you hear about a black man getting his @ss whooped lately or worse, it’s some buck O five soak and wet non black chick. It’s hard to feel sorry for him or Tiger. It’s unfortunate what happened to Steve McNair. However, the moral of the story is – you got to be EXTRA careful when you go to the other side ESPECIALLY when you are one of those insecure black men who claims that black women are the center of your problems, full of drama or don’t fit your standards. The universe has a strange way of getting you back!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    Jazzy and Empress: you gals beat me to the punch, but that’s okay–I’m just glad someone pointed out the issue of non-black women being just as crazy and violent as black women. The sad thing, however, is that these black men will be quick to stay with these bytches even if it means losing their lives.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    Yah, he was smart to call the police b/c as a black man, if he had hit back at a non-black woman, especially one who is so attractive, his azz would have been thrown under the jail. Had it been a sister, the police probably would have thought that she deserved it for having “too much attitude”.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    @ Game4It-> I feel ya on that, Dude! There ARE some PSYCHOS out here that want NOTHING LESS than some DRAMA and will stop at NOTHING to get it!
    ;-)
    @ Jazzy-> I don’t know WHO (and I’d like to find out who) said that BLACK WOMEN are the ‘ONLY ONES’ that are crazy and have issues, but.. I KNOW for a FACT that it’s NOT ‘JUST Black Women’ that have these issues. I’ve dated other races of Women and there’s some SERIOUS ISSUES floating around in ALL of them. If a guy has ONLY dated BLACK WOMEN, then he’s more inclined to ‘only’ say that Black Women can be crazy. Because that’s ALL HE’S DATED. If he hasn’t dealt with any other race of Women, then he cannot (and should not) speak about them. Also.. I notice some negative things being said about this guy (Gary Dourdan) and Tiger (I don’t care for Tiger myself, but it’s only because of how he’s ‘downplayed’ his connection to Black People. NOT because he dates White Women.). I don’t know whether your problem lies with the fact that these guys are dating ‘non-black’ Women and didn’t hit back (which implies Jealousy), or just the fact that these guys didn’t hit back (Which implies a desire for guys that DO hit back). But either way.. It’s just as sad. ;-)

    For all those who may feel compelled to slander me-> “PHUCK YA!” in advance! lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    2good2bsingle my comment:” they say that their’s only crazy black women in this world” was made because I have heard several black men talk about how crazy and violent black women are. And then you have some of these non black women” get on here and vouch for them saying ” my man said he do not date y’all because ya’ll some crazy b***hes”. So that’s why I had to address that situation because whether black men that do not date black women believe it or not theirs attitudes in every race. And I repeat every woman is capable of committing violence. However most violence committed by a non black woman ends in death(lol). Sorry I’m just going by what I see in the media.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/critical22/ critical22

    First of all that girl in the pic with him in the water is black..for all of you who do not know or are claiming otherwise. Y’all need to grow up and stop thinking that african americans are the only kind of black in this world. You can clearly tell by his eyes and hair that he is alot of mix blood in him…but let me ask this to the black ladies on here… Why are the black ladies so quick to claim mixed guys as black, but when you see mix ladies you automatically call her a white girl or non black??? By the way, he made a smart move or the heading would have been ACTOR GARY IN JAIL :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    critical22, no one here needs to “grow up” because we have called this woman non-black. We are quite aware that there are other people in this world who are of african descent who look otherwise. This young lady probably DOES have some black blood in her, but she is clearly not 100% and she definitely has hispanic/latina roots. Bottom line is that from a cursory view, police would not look at her as being black.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KINESHIA/ KINESHIA

    LOL NO 0OKAYYY CRITICAL22 DO NOT KNOW WHAT HE TALKIN BOUT!!!LOL JUS CUZ HIS HAIR AND HIS EYES ARE COLORED HE MIXED???? CHILE PLZZZZZ. AND I KNO WE ALL LUK DIFFERENT BUT THAT BROAD IS NOT BLACK. O0O0H HELL NAWWW HE LET HER WHOOP HIS AZZZ?? UN UN UN.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    @ criticallyblind you said Maria Asis del Alamo is black? Well I be damn! With a name like that and her features? Ok because she has a “black women’s tan do not make her black! So try again!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlueTearDrops/ BlueTearDrops

    I commend him for not beating her up. We all know most men are stronger than most women. It obviously wouldn’t have taken a lot for him to restrain her. Had he hit her back, the arrest probably would have gone a lot differently (if yall know what I mean). Not to mention how bad that would be for his career to come off as a hot headed woman beater. And a woman’s equal rights aside, real men are raised not to hit women. I would never hit a man or ANYONE for that matter. BUT the men I know would never hit me back if I did. They might hold my arms down and restrain me in some way, but there’s no need to beat a woman into submission because she’s crazy! And I think that’s what this chick is. lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    I checked out photos of the g/f on other sites; she looks a LOT more hispanic or Italian than she does black. In the photos above, she obviously has a deep tan, which a lot of NON-BLACKS can get (and please-don’t go there with the history of the black Diaspora; we already know about it and we don’t need a recitation on it here because the point has been made and validated that non-black women are just as capable of being violent as black women).

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    …Did I mention that she is around 21/22 and he is around 42/43? That’s one of the problems right there; you got a young-azz girl who thinks that she can do whatever the hell she wants.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/j-love33/ j-love33

    THIS IS WHY I LIKE CHRIS BROWN MAN HE TRANSFORMED ON RIRI.

    The shi* that this woman did she is very lucky he did not attack her like most men would have well a black man would have.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SenorCafeDa2nd/ SenorCafeDa2nd

    Punk azz nicca

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/alishakel/ alishakel

    wow thats a big shame! first tiger got beat up by a white woman his wife

    and cover it up, then this tall black man got beat up by this non-black female

    BIG SHAME!!! that is so gross to read, oh and dont forget that white man in his 60′s who beat that black man on the bus….who then call for ambulamps, Im feeling very ashamed when I read this. black men are being beaten by white people the old, young and female

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdDOAsx3ODE

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SupaSweet77/ SupaSweet77

    WTF!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BP_SportsFreaks/ BP_SportsFreaks

    Ay, when a chick hits you, you’re basically in a no win situation. If you leave, then she tears up your house. If you retaliate and knock her teeth down her throat, the po-po comes and hauls you off to the station, or the deep woods, or wherever. So, homie took the road less traveled…which was the SMART THING. He called the po-po on her crazy ass and she got the bracelets. Never mind what most of y’all young stupid-azzes on here think. Some of these wild chicks aint been taught or just don’t respect the fact that most men can over power a woman, so they take advantage of it. And no matter how it played out, people are gonna call him out anyway, so better her then me get locked up.

    “You wanna go to jail, or you wanna go home?”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ImBack247/ ImBack247

    Congrats to Gary for not hitting a female! BP_SportsFreaks said it best!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SINJA_/ SINJA_

    so right @ BP_SportsFreaks……. there are soooo many untold stories of how females get loose on their dudes-then the men hit back and get the shyt for it.. . Rihanna used to smack Chris constantly -and in public too, but noone calls her out for that..He should’ve just left her before he went postal on her (and ruined his image-but no matter,he was wrong for beating her of course).

    Men need to walk away from these poisonous relationships..It always gets them into trouble….People need to keep their hands to themselves or just break up… Someone that pushes,grabs or raises their hand to you can’t possibly respect or love you.. you wouldn’t do that to a friend-why do that to your man/woman?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SexcellentGal/ 1SexcellentGal

    I totally see what he did here. If he had hit her back then his behind would have been in jail and since she’s not black, he would probably have been sent to prison right away. LMAO @ BP_SportsFreaks…”….or the deep woods, or wherever…” Very smart on his part. Come to think of it, maybe I should rethink my idea of telling my son to defend himself and slap a b***h if she’s trying to hurt you. I could see how I could end up bailing my baby out of jail. I was a firm believer in defending yourself if some crazy hoe is trying to hurt you, but I definately will tell my baby to get away from her and call the cops so they can take her out with the trash, just like Gary did. It’s kinda unfair if a woman is hitting her man and doing harm of anykind for him not to be able to defend himself. Sure, women are often at the receiving end of domestic violence, but what’s a man to do. Personally, if a man was hitting me I was going to fu@k him up and call the police. I’m totally against domestic violence of any kind, man against woman or woman against man. But there is a wrong and a right way around it, at least I hope so because no b***h will hit my son. I’m not having it, just like I’m not having grandkids without DNA test…LMAO, it’s not funnny, ok a little, but I’m serious

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mayhem187/ mayhem187

    if a b***h thinks shes equal to me n wanna fight then bring it on!!! if i like her enough i wudnt hit her.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Schelby/ Schelby

    It’s a slippery slope. You don’t wanna look like a punk and get beat by a woman but you don’t wanna look like a woman-beater in the media and end up in jail. It could ruin your career for sure. Gary or Tiger could have knocked their women down or just grabbed them by the neck and held them down to protect themselves and ended the whole scene but that one action would be the thing to bring all the legal drama. You gotta move to India or Pakistan or one of them muslim countries where it’s legal to knock a woman out when you have to.

    Dudes better stop messing with them “ride-or-die” chicks who supposedly act like they “got your back” in a scuffle. They’re the ones who will step to you quick, then b!+ch up to the cops when you have to put ‘em down.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/whoyouimme/ whoyouimme

    I really hate how they tried to make him look like a punk by showing her weight and then showing his. Now if he beat HER ass then he will be condemned but it is ok for her to do it to him i guess.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    If she was black he would have whipped her ass! With no questions asked!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/fl_kappsi/ fl_kappsi

    phuck that! If a bytch is bad enought to pass a lick she better be bad enough to take one!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ChocolateMadam43/ ChocolateMadam43

    @Jazzylicious2006
    U are so right!! LOL. Her ethnicity kept her from the getting the ass whooping of her life! Or Dourdan is just a punk ass. In any case, too many of these celebs are careless by letting their business get in the damn streets.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AfricanSpeech/ AfricanSpeech

    Defensive tactics, people…

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jauharah/ Jauharah

    I will never advocate a man hitting on a woman Ii’ll cut a nigga before I let him lay a hand on me like that), so in this regard you have to give him his props – he didn’t hit her.  That being said, what kind of a candy ass is he that he even let her hit him in the first place, let alone allow it to escalate to the level of needing to involve the police.

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