A question from a Facebook friend on my timeline caught my attention the other day. I could not get it out of my head, so naturally I started to do what I always do to express myself; blog about it. You ever ask yourself “What do I bring to a relationship?” Which begs the bigger […]
It’s the most wonderful time of the year, the holiday season. Yes by now you should be knee deep in holiday preparations, gift shopping, and meal planning or preparing to take off to go visit family. If you’ve recently taken your relationship further in the commitment department then you may be doing things differently this […]
I’m not sure about you beauties, but I grew up always surrounded by cousins and random family friends who I considered to be family. We spent lots of time outside, roaming the backyard, basements or any room without plastic-covered furniture as this colored wolf pack grew and played together. As much fun as we had, […]
I hear your cries…it’s tough, there are no good available men left, you keep getting approached by scrubs with big dreams, and low self-esteem. Yes, I’m still listening. You said the ones who walk the walk and talk the talk are not making you moist…right? I also heard that the one you DO want can’t […]
I recently celebrated my 30th birthday–wow, I know, major. So major that I can’t stop announcing it. Celebrating this milestone was nothing short of amazing, but it caused me to reflect like I never have before. I reflected deeply on my love life over the past decade. Did I just say decade!?! I often get […]
The most freakish part about being in a new relationship is that moment when you realize that the initial happy go lucky phase is over and real effort is needed, emotional effort that is. You realize this one day as you sit in silence with your premature ejaculator imagination thinking about all the potential scenarios […]
I remember discovering the VHS porn collection (I’m showing my age!) of an ex-boyfriend one day while cleaning. At first I was outraged and that slowly burned away into this uncontrollable lusty curiosity, so I pressed play. My eyes widened and I got into my own rhythm I was so turned on from finding his […]
Don’t you hate when you start talking to a new guy and half way through the first phone conversation he’s like, “I’m not into the games”, or “females be playing games”. I know my first inclination is to think: Omg I want to hang up I hope he doesn’t get into some sob story about […]
It’s rare and to some, non-existent, to come across friends of the opposite sex that add real value to our lives without any pressure to hook up, which is sad. I feel that although physical attraction is what it is, we should all have people in our circle of the opposite sex who are attraction- […]
Many summers ago I recall spending a lot of time at the YMCA. My boyfriend at the time splurged on a membership and was obsessed with physical fitness so I made it a point to go when I could. It was the coolest place on earth because it had a pool, sauna and towel service. […]
I was asked by a friend to write about where to meet new people. The topic instantly took me back to my Twitter rant (@goddess_I) this past weekend on networking. I can’t tell you how many networking events I’ve been to in my young life, but I have yet to leave one not feeling like […]
I had the pleasure of being a guest on the R & B Podcast hosted by Lincoln Anthony Blades of the popular This Is Your Conscience blog. We had a really interesting laid back conversation (as always) chopping it up about everything from event planning to my thoughts on threesomes (your cue to check it […]
