I am in awe of the Black Woman. She is one of God’s greatest gifts. To truly appreciate her, you have to really know her. The barrage of attacks against the Black Woman has mounted to the point where I am offended. What is even more disappointing is that the most vigorous attacks are coming […]
Marriage is life’s most difficult challenge, but it is also life’s most rewarding triumph. More and more of us each day are being raised in single parent households. Our parents are divorced so when we get married, divorce is automatically an option for our troubled marriage. Today’s generation is comfortable with divorce. Divorce is what […]
I may have stumbled across a sure-fire way to choose a loving husband. I am starting to notice a trend in the #LoveCapacity Quiz Data. I was doing some cross examinations of men versus women and husbands versus wives. The couples that are reporting to me as “Happily Married–” the husband is consistently scoring higher […]
Sometimes your relationships move too fast. Sometimes your relationships move too slow. Sometimes it’s them. Sometimes it’s you. I want the people who score a Love Capacity of 5 to do a better job of defining beforehand what they want out of a partner and a relationship. If you don’t know what you want, don’t […]
One day two unhappily married men were talking. One man, me, said to the other man “I think it’s us man, I think we just have to love them better. I can’t believe how much my wife loves me. I could never put up with the stuff that she has put up with in order […]
We left off last week with Scott preparing to give Michelle a heartfelt apology for the man and the husband that he has been in the past. Let’s jump right back in . . . Scott, Michelle doesn’t believe in you anymore. I can’t believe you for her. You have to convince her yourself. And […]
Last week we talked with the wife, Michelle, about forgiveness. I believe that all spouses can be forgiven for anything if they show remorse, agree to get counseling and they recommit themselves to the marriage. Today we are trying to figure out if Scott has met those criteria to gain forgiveness. Barack Obama’s Young Life, […]
As I reviewed the list of problems that Michelle had with her husband Scott I only had one thing on my mind. How can I convince Michelle that none of these problems will ever happen again? I can teach Scott. Training men to be husbands is not a problem for me. As I reviewed the list again […]
OK! Here we go! The new #LoveCapacity Quiz is in place on LoveCapacity.com! When the website was launched for Valentine’s day we had 30,000 hits on the first day and over 60,000 hits in the first two weeks! Go to http://www.LoveCapacity.com, take the quiz and get your #LoveCapacity Score in about 2 minutes! DO IT NOW! LOL! We took […]
Last week I asked Scott if he had forgiven his wife for cheating. Scott said, “I am man enough to admit that I drove her to cheat because I didn’t pay her any attention.” I said, “WOW!” Scott continued, “I did not know how to be a husband. I was treating her like she was a […]
The D.I.N.A.O. Project (Divorce Is Not An Option) is about making people stay married. Ok, that’s a little strong. The D.I.N.A.O. Project is about not allowing people to get a divorce. Ok, that’s just as strong. One more time . . . The D.I.N.A.O. Project is about imparting upon married folk a mindset that all […]
At least once a week I get an email from someone on the subject of “Closure.” They want Closure. They need Closure. They deserve Closure. I AM THE RELATIONSHIPBEAST & I know all things relationship . . . except for Closure. I never understood Closure relationships. I get it in marriage but in dating? Closure in […]
