Well, they are doing it for a reason. Nearly half of marriages in Mexico end in divorce, usually in the first two years, so implementing this license would keep couples from “going through the tortuous process of divorce,” according to assemblyman who co-authored the bill.

As accommodating as that sounds, we’re having a hard time wrapping our minds around how pessimistic and reactive this sounds. Why not be proactive and do your diligence of choosing the right one, the right way, the first time around?

What do you all think?

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Frédéric Fekkai is the owner of six Frédéric Fekkai salons and the creator of the Fekkai hair products. Here’s what he had to say:

START IN THE SHOWER
Look for shine-enhancing shampoo and conditioner with ingredients like olive oil, jojoba, and rice proteins. Alternate these with your regular formulas to prevent buildup. Be wary of clarifying shampoos; they can deprive hair of much-needed moisture and even strip the dye off color-treated hair. After you shampoo, apply a conditioner evenly through the ends and rinse thoroughly. If your hair is color-treated, use a hair mask weekly to replenish moisture.

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Look for thick fabrics, soles with good traction, and built-in insulation (like shearling or faux-socks)!

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DEFINED RINGLETS
This style is an easy way to give naturally curly hair some definition and shape. Finger-comb curl cream through damp hair (the amount you use depends on how much hair you have, but don’t be afraid to really use the product. We like Moroccanoil Intense Curl Cream. Let it air-dry, or blow-dry it using the diffuser, then polish curls with a small-barrel curling iron. Pick out the naturally existing coils, wrap them around the iron, then spray them with shine spray. Don’t shake it out with your fingers—you want these curls to be tight and bouncy.

GLAMOROUS WAVES
If your date is somewhere fancy—say a big party or a night at the theater—these glossy ripples are the perfect way to complement a great dress. After blow-drying hair with a round brush to create volume, create a deep side part. Set hair in hot rollers and let them cool for 15 minutes. Take them down, then comb out with a brush that’s been spritzed with shine spray.

SLEEK CENTER PART
This casual style is first-date hair because you don’t look like you’re trying too hard, but it’s still polished. To get hair this straight, smooth an anti-frizz serum, such as Alterna Caviar Anti-Aging Color Hold Polishing Serum, over damp hair before blow-drying it with a paddle brush. Finish the hair off with a flatiron to make it look shinier and smoother.

LOOSE WAVES
Here’s one good reason you should copy this hairstyle on your next date: It’s sexy, make-out hair. To get it, blow-dry your hair with a diffuser attachment. Then, working with one-inch sections, wrap hair around a medium-barrel curling iron, starting at ear level and leaving the ends out. Let the hair cool in coils, then flip your head over and shake them out into soft waves. GET THE REST HERE!

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On her marriage:
My marriage is not on the rocks. But I would be a liar and my fans would hate me if I said to them, ‘Oh, we’re perfect and everything is great.’ We have our situations just like everybody else. I mean, we’re not out in public tryna kill each other, but it’s real. But we love each other. That’s it.

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On motherhood:
When it’s time, when it happens. It’s in my future, but I’m not planning it. I don’t want to do it because its the trend. I was a babysitter when I was a kid. I babysitted kids from 12 to, like, 16 years old. I changed diapers, I heard ‘em cry so I don’t…

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With A Micro Mini
A teeny, tiny skirt (a dress works, too!) turns a sweater into a bar-hopping-approved outfit. Wear it with your winter tights and super-tall boots, and get ready to be the most comfortable you’ve ever been while slamming back beers. Embellished Chunky Sweater, $27.80

Color Theory
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Wear It Atop Cropped Pants
Balance out the volume on top with a skinny, cropped pair of pants. If the weather allows it, go sockless and slip into a killer pair of pumps. For colder climes, tall boots and a pair of nubby socks should keep the chill at bay. Oversized Pocket Sweater, $48.99

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Inside, she talks being Black in Hollywood and her childhood with fellow star Jennifer Lopez.

On Hollywood:
I think it’s a really special time to be a woman of color in this business. The landscape of who has the power is changing. We are in more influential positions and are able to have a say in the stories that are told. I feel very lucky to be in the business now.

On Jennifer Lopez:
I grew up blocks away from Jennifer Lopez. She and I went to the same Boys & Girls Club. She was like the dancer who made it big and moved to Hollywood. [I told her] ‘I don’t know if I would’ve taken a risk in my career if it weren’t for you.’

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On the difference between her stage persona and her real life: “Oh they’re definitely two completely different people. Obviously what I would wear at home is not what I would wear up on stage and I think, when I’m at home it’s a way more introspective character and I think the person people see on stage is anything but. I watch a lot of Judge Judy. And I watch a lot of Forensic Files. And I cook – I cook spaghetti really, really good; I cook macaroni and cheese really, really good; I cook chicken really, really good.”

On her Barbie obsession: “I feel like Barbie is great because it doesn’t only focus on beauty – you have Barbies that work, they have tons of different jobs now. And they come in different shades, which I love, and different hairstyles. So I think that they’ve gotten to the point where they’re making girls feel like it’s OK not to look like or be like the traditional Barbie. Now in terms of a body image, even male action figure dolls are cut up more than the average man – it’s just how people make dolls!”

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According to TMZ, the “Soul Train” creator and host, died of apparent suicide. He was pronounced dead at the hospital.

This is so sad & unexpected!

Take a walk down memory lane below!

Watch him interview Mary Wilson of the Supremes (and the Soul Train line starts at the 2:00 min mark!)

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Though Raven won’t have much time to practice – rehearsals begin in February, and the show hits the stage in March – we’re not worried. She’s been in show business since the age of 5. However, we can’t remember the last time we heard her sing live.

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The cover is tri-fold, featuring one “power” panel – the one you’ll actually see on newsstands – and two foldout panels.

Rooney Mara (of Girl With The Dragon Tattoo), Mia Wasikowska, Jennifer Lawrence and Jessica Chastain landed the coveted “power” panel.

Black actress Adepero Oduye (of Pariah) is featured on the second foldout alongside Elizabeth Olsen (the third famous sister) and Shailene Woodley.

And finally, on the last foldout is Mission: Impossible star Paula Patton next to Felicity Jones, Lily Collins and Brit Marling.

The magazine has done this almost every year. In the past, Zoe Saldana, Rashida Jones, Rosario Dawson, Kerry Washington, Jada Pinkett Smith, Jennifer Lopez, Angela Bassett, Will Smith, Samuel L. Jackson and Don Cheadle have all been pushed “to the right” so as not to be seen on newsstands, probably in hopes that a “white-washed” cover will result in more sales. See ‘em all here.

We would waste our breath on this subject matter, but we did that back in 2010: Vanity Fair’s Young Hollywood Issue Features No Women Of Color

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“I am not healthy at this weight. Any time you have too much around the middle, then there is a problem. [And] when you reach a certain weight, you are less valuable. I feel for the overly thin women as much as I do for the overweight women. It … has to change. If more women ate, they would be a lot happier. Let me tell you, I am a lot grumpier when I don’t eat.”

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On working with Marc on their new TV show “¡Q’Viva! The Chosen” and their awkward moments:
“Marc and I were friends before we got married. We were friends for years, and we always loved each other. And we always worked together, so it wasn’t an unnatural thing for us to continue working together. And, obviously, we have children together, so it’s not going to be like he’s not in my life. He’s always going to be in my life. It really is a passion project for us and even though it has it’s difficult moments, it’s still a great thing that we’re doing – that we feel that we’re doing. By the way, we have those moments! We’re human. I’m not going to sit here and lie to you about that, but at the end of the day, there is real love there and there is a family there and that comes first. And at the end of the day, we also really love this project. It has its moments once in awhile when we’re together – just because of the same things as when we were married!”

Do you think you’ll marry again?
“I don’t know. I don’t know. I don’t know. We’ll see. I mean, I don’t know. It’s not time to think about that yet. It’s still fresh.”

That means yes.

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On life with Dwyane Wade in Miami
D and I have a life together, too. I love my life in Miami. I can’t imagine functioning without both. I love the design district, I love Midtown, I love what’s happening downtown now. I’m comfortable. It’s rare for me to feel that level of freedom. Miami represents joy for me. A week away is pretty much it for me. When I land in Miami, I feel like I’ve been holding my breath and am finally exhaling. I can breathe. I feel accepted, welcomed. I feel like I can be my true self, the woman I always aspired to be… More in Miami than any other place.

On having children:
I was never someone who thought about having kids – I mean, they’re great in theory, but I never imagined having one [myself]. Maybe over the next five years I could wrap my brain around becoming a mother and what that would mean in terms of sacrifice and dedication. I don’t do anything impulsively, so more toward the five years out than the one-year.

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According to TMZ, there have been no claims that Halle has mistreated the little girl, but a nanny is alleging that Gabriel pushed her once while holding the baby, as well as yanked the child out of her arms.

Naturally, Gabriel is asking for a restraining order against the nanny who he claims is making up stories.

This is so unfortunate! Nahla’s too young for her parents to be acting like children!

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When a Twitter fan sent J.Hud a picture of a woman asking to confirm if it was, in fact, the star, she responded: “No, but this is…”

Wearing short-shorts and a midriff-baring crop top, Jennifer is seen in the photo getting glammed up by a manicurist. And we must say, we like what we see!

Keep up the good work, Jen!

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The Touchable Half-Up Curly ‘Do like Garcelle Beauvais
If you find your curly haircut springing up, down and all around, just pull the top portion back into a sleek half-up ‘do and we doubt you’ll ever have another bad hair day, lovelies!

The Glam Mini Cornrows like Joy Bryant
Instead of braiding cornrows all the way around, add a few subtle braids to the sides of your center part. Take a piece of hair about as wide as your index finger and braid from the top to halfway down. Secure with an invisible hair tie and spray all over with a shine-enhancing spray like Bumble & Bumble Shine Spray.

The Twisty Short-Hair Updo like Katerina Graham
Spray a styling product like Nexxus Root Extent on the roots of wet hair, blow-dry and curl all around using a 1-inch-barrel curling iron to help give hair a bit of swirl. After teasing the crown, take random 3-inch sections, swirl hair—like the shape of a cinnamon bun—and secure with bobby pins. The fringe should be gently teased, smoothed with your fingers and spritzed with shine-enhancing hairspray.

The Styled Pixie Haircut like Halle Berry
Add a dime-size amount of sculpting paste such as Shu Uemura Art of Hair Shape Paste’s to freshly shampooed hair to define the layers. Take a mini flatiron to give a few pieces a little bit of a bend. If halfway through the evening you notice your cute hair deflating, keep a mini bottle of alcohol-free hand sanitizer gel to dab on to reactivate your hair products.

The Mod French Braid like Eva Longoria
Tuck the tail of a French braid underneath to create this gorgeous updo. Start by making a thin rectangular section on the top of your head from hairline to crown and clip it away. Divide the rest of the hair to make a loose French braid, secure with a clear elastic and fold the tail under using bobby pins. Remove your clip, brush back and blast generously with hairspray.

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You Feel More Pleasure
A University of Vienna study found that bigger breasts are sometimes less sensitive than smaller ones. “Larger breasts have more fatty tissue than glandular tissue, which is the most sensitive part,” says sexologist Rachael Ross, MD, PhD. “With smaller breasts, the glands are easier to stimulate during foreplay because they’re not underneath a fatty layer.”

They Keep You Healthy
Having a smaller set does your body good in other ways too. “In self-exams, it’s easier to detect a lump in the back of smaller breasts, since there are fewer layers to feel through,” says oncologist Marisa Weiss, president and founder of breastcancer.org. And small breasts can also save your neck. Larger boobs are heavier, and that puts pressure on the body. “It alters a woman’s posture so her neck is strained and she’s more likely to have headaches,” says Dr. Weiss.

You Look Younger, Longer
Back in caveman days, men needed a way to tell a woman’s age. “They had to look at physical signs,” says Satoshi Kanazawa, PhD, an evolutionary psychologist. The giveaway: her mammary glands. “Larger breasts sag over time, so it was an indicator that a woman was older,” says Kanazawa. “It’s more difficult to assess a woman’s age if she has smaller breasts.” Since your breasts are less affected by gravity, they’ll stay sexy for way longer. SOURCE

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1. Workout right before—or at least that day. Exercising will make your muscles look tighter and leaner for at least a few hours afterwords.

2. Use a bronzer for contouring. The word “contouring” can be a little intimidating, but all it really means is you take a powder (like Maybelline Mineral Bronzer) and dust your cleavage and abs to add definition. Focus on the sides of your stomach—the shadowing will make you look slimmer.

3. Don’t forget your legs. Sleek stems are key, especially if you’re rocking a garter, which will draw attention to them. If you have ample prep time, use a self-tanner the day before. If your tryst is more spontaneous, use a shimmering cream (like NARS Body Glow) which also has a scent he’ll go wild for. SOURCE

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Though she sang in a range higher than we’re used to hearing, she hit every note as Michael’s mother and children looked on.

She later Tweeted, “I am at a complete loss of words. Overwhelmed and completely honoured. Cheers to the King of Pop #MichaelJackson xo”

Enjoy!

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The fashion runways showed Prada’s models in creamy silver eyeshadow from lid to brow and Rodarte’s with gold lips and lashes.

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The designers want to create a mini-museum showcasing her career, from her Destiny’s Child days to her infamous wardrobe. They hope to unveil it this year on her birthday of September 4.

The proceeds from this project will go towards several charitable causes like Music for America, the Grammy Cares Foundation, Hurricane Katrina victims, and flooding victims in the states of Tennessee, Alabama, and Mississippi.

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CAKED-ON BASE
Painting layers of foundation, tinted moisturizer, concealer, and powder on your face will rub off on your collar…and his. Stick with a lightweight foundation, remove any obvious makeup with a damp sponge, and dab concealer just over blemishes or redness.

A SLOPPY SHAVE
Nothing says “I’ve given up” as succinctly as leg stubble. Shave at night for the most precise finish (your legs swell as you sleep, so you’ll miss hairs if you shave in the morning) and use a new blade. Doing so will also help you avoid those annoying red razor bumps.

STICKY LIP GLOSS
There are lip glosses that moisturize with a subtle sheen, and there are those that are so sticky they could glue together broken glass.

STIFF HAIR
No man is going to be able to run his fingers through your hair if it’s knotted in a bun, pulled into a twist, or otherwise high-maintenance-looking. Go for a more approachable hairstyle, like easy waves, half up, or a pretty ponytail.

SMOKY-EYE OVERLOAD
It starts off innocently enough: It’s just you, an eye-shadow palette, and a mirror. But things can get ugly fast when heavy, dark shadows are piled on top of each other. Create a subtle, sexy smoky eye by slightly smudging black eyeliner along the rims of your eyes.

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The hot mama – who was known for having rockhard abs before the baby – stepped out in a navy blue catsuit after shopping at Chanel in West Hollywood. And it showed off all her curves, accented by a thin belt cinching her waist.

She was named the face of Jenny Craig in October and it looks like their program is working!

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Guetta seems to be a mad scientist hard at work.

The pair will perform the track at the 54th Grammy Awards in February.

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MOISTURIZE AFTER SHOWERING
We all know a warm shower strips skin of oils. Face creams and body lotions are excellent substitutes, as long as you apply them correctly. Keep body lotion right in the shower. Seeing it will remind you to apply it when your skin is damp, within ten minutes of turning off the water. Choose a body lotion with a flip top because pump bottles allow water in, and that can lead to bacteria.

TAKE OFF YOUR MAKEUP AT NIGHT
You’ve known since middle school that makeup can mix with skin oils and dirt to cause zits. Cosmetics can also trap in skin-damaging free radicals that float in the air (think: bus exhaust)! So, try washing your face as soon as you get home. At the very least, remove your mascara. Try keeping face wipes on the bedside table. Tear open, swab, slumber.

CLEAN UP AFTER THE GYM
If your gym doesn’t have a shower or you’re still to shy to use them, wear moisture-wicking clothes (Nike and Lululemon make them) and pack salicylic acid Stridex pads in your gym bag. Swipe the face, back, and chest after class, and change into a clean, dry T-shirt. Back home, hop into the shower as soon as possible.

CLEAN YOUR MAKEUP BRUSHES
You should clean your brushes once a week, but most don’t. Instead, wash your tools monthly with a liquid hand soap or baby shampoo and lukewarm water, then rinse well, squeeze out the excess water, reshape, and allow the brushes to dry thoroughly by balancing them over the sink. Weekly, spritz them with antibacterial spray and dry with a tissue.

STICK WITH THE PROGRAM
Waiting for a new skin treatment to show results can be a test of patience. A good anti-aging cream can take six weeks, so don’t give up. That goes for skin lighteners and acne products, too. But if nothing has changed by week six, the product will never work for you. Time to move on. GET THE REST HERE!