Comments on: Does Having “The Wall” Up Help Or Hurt You?

By: caramelhoney03

caramelhoney03 — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 00:04:09 +0000

Well…it helps for a certain period of time….but eventually those walls have to come down and you have to trust somebody….Just make sure those walls aren’t too high to begin with.

By: Lucky_Jester777

Lucky_Jester777 — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 18:28:43 +0000

Walls only keep you from seeing something ELSE coming!!! LOL …. i thought i was a masonry i build so many walls. this create a problem for you and your partner in the long run… its ok to protect your self with an occasional barrier or happy place. somewhere you can go on your own and think things out. but just keeping up a wall can also make out like YOU have something to hide… even if its simply your own insecurities….

By: illuminatus

illuminatus — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 16:13:19 +0000

It helps.

By: Sexxgirl2011

Sexxgirl2011 — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 02:47:35 +0000

Walls are barriers that can block your blessings.

By: blackandmarried

blackandmarried — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 18:35:51 +0000

@The_Golden_One – great comment

By: The_Golden_One

The_Golden_One — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 17:35:09 +0000

I honestly feel like having a wall up will block your blessings. What a lot of people have to understand is that we just might have to go through a lot of heartbreaks to get to that one who makes our hearts smile. It is a scary and difficult thing to be vulnerable each and every time you come across someone new in your life, however that is the whole concept of living. I too have had a wall up and I am still breaking that wall down brick by brick, and it is very difficult, but nevertheless I know that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t bear.