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By: CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST

CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 04:14:05 +0000

Why is it that when black women take pride in all they do-SOME ignorant a$$ N!GGA come alone and type something dumb because some of us-BLACK WOMEN don’t need the man,gifts,candy,cards,etc to be happy on Valentine’s Day nor to feel loved. Why not go for it all year round instead of just for one day? As long as your happy with yourself nothing else really matter.(JMOA)

By: Kashi101

Kashi101 — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 04:08:45 +0000

true article. the women that do this mess won’t understand though. it goes over their heads. too many of my single friends fit the deranged, stage5 clinger, doormat categories. can’t teach them nothing either

By: Treehugginhippie

Treehugginhippie — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 14:49:44 +0000

A bunch of arrogant single women are all I hear.
Your attitude makes you unappealing to men.
I wouldn’t want u cocky ladies even if you looked better.
Even ugly people have relationships. The problem
is some guy told you that you were the s@&$
and you believed it. Nobody is perfect
stop acting like it.

By: 4JESUS_SATANCRUSHER

4JESUS_SATANCRUSHER — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 22:50:56 +0000

(scrolled down to make a comment without reading a bit of this article)…ummm ok. Stop trying to lower women’s self esteem by making them feel they aren’t adequate enough to have a man. I’m not going to elaborate any further on this…next article plz

By: trisha_369

trisha_369 — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:40:00 +0000

Im still trippin off the topic-VALENTINE’S DAY don’t just mean you got to have a man nor woman in your life-to get a gift-its all about love and you can get that from your child if you got any or from your family and close friends. Im not going out to look for love and im not going to stop being INDEPENDENT-just so I can say he got me a gift-either. I get those things and love threw out the year and I don’t worry about V-Day because I know im loved.(JUST MY OPINION)

By: jazzylicious2006

jazzylicious2006 — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 15:41:33 +0000

Wow! Well I don’t know how it feels to be lonely on v-day I always have some male companion wanting to take me out. (Whether it’s v-day or not). Sometimes it’s best to keep more male friends then female(not on a dating tip friendship wise) honestly they make better friends to me. Whether it’s someone I’m currently dating or one of my single male friends. I’ve never discovered a lonely v-day. Good luck lady’s I hope cupid finds you.

By: nayatha

nayatha — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 15:03:04 +0000

This Valentines you have to be ‘Single’ because it is Carnival Sunday in Trinidad and you leave the man at home… or go separate fetes(party)… cause it’s madness down here until next week…

By: BlackSouljahGFX

BlackSouljahGFX — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 12:02:41 +0000

Way to kick the lonely and sad women while they are down. I’ve met some wonderful single women of all races. The thing is, just because someone is good… doesn’t mean they’re good for me. I feel they’d make the right man a wonderful girlfriend and/or wife. Let’s be real though….. men play their part too. The lack of respect shown to women nowadays is sad. When more black men start really acting like men…. we’d all be better off….. from the communities to how our kids are being raised (or not being).

By: bunnie20020

bunnie20020 — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 09:16:29 +0000

There are many reasons why women are single on V-day. One of the main reasons is because some men are not interested in settling down. While there so busy “playing the field”, women like:

MS. I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-NT – get tired of waiting on “dead-weights / deadbeats” to get there act together (financially — U better call Tyrone).

MS. DERANGED – becomes insecure due to how she was or been treated be4 by other losers.

MS STAGE 5 CLINGER – falls 4 any guy that shows her alil’ attention. Still doesn’t give men (or women — it’s 2010) power to play on their emotions. U can tell if someone is going in that direction. If a clinger is not what u want, don’t prolong it (like alot of folks — lol do). End the bs and let her know why.

MS DOORMAT – tries to keep someone by letting em’ walk all over her. She feels that by letting men/women do what they want to do, it proves her devotion. But yet, there are still alot of guys (and girls

By: DameDivalicious

DameDivalicious — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 08:49:29 +0000

I do not fall under any of the points they made so I know I done things right. So if the writer of the article think some women like me who is single by choice have a problem getting a man, I got a bridge to sell them. I get marriage proposals regardless of what day and month in the year while I am still single. What they should be talking about is how to avoid losing a man when Valentine’s Day comes. Quite a few relationships fall apart because there was no proposal of marriage, no flowers, chocolate, gifts, cards, become drunk and embarrassing in public or just plain not saying I love you enough etc. People forget they should never base a relationship on material things or even take it for granted let along a marriage proposal. My last boyfriend cook a nice dinner for me and we had champagne at his house. I appreciated that greatly but did not wanted to marry him. From my observation some people are in love with the idea of getting marry but do they ever look at that person and truly honestly can say they wanted to be with them for 20, 30 or 50 years??

By: NutinButThaBest

NutinButThaBest — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 03:00:23 +0000

Yeap this is my 4th year single w/no valentine, and this is the only year i actually feel a lil lonely, Im a mix of Ms independent and someone who trys to find flaws. But its not my fault im sooo independent other than i run into men who CANT do for me or are not doing enough–Im good tho my son has been my valentine the last few years :D

By: Kris_87

Kris_87 — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 02:02:39 +0000

my reason: i’m newly single! geez, do we have to have a man on Feb. 14 of every year? sometimes it just doesn’t work out that way

i have a couple dates lined up for this weekend, so i think i’m good on these “woman issues” lol

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By: Chocolate_Gul

Chocolate_Gul — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:31:04 +0000

Hmmmmm I hacked my ex’s FB account but I wouldn’t say I’m DERANGED!

By: NOWITZMYTURN

NOWITZMYTURN — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 21:17:26 +0000

STANDING OVATION FOR ALPHAMANEC & DARK_ZERO.

By: Dark_Zero

Dark_Zero — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 20:21:16 +0000

It is about time there is an article about how women drive men away. Geez, and believe me, a woman isn’t always as good as a man in everthing, please get that right Hello Beautiful. Some of these I agree with, especially Ms. Independent, I mean it’s not about the fragile ego, it’s about women who allow their attitudes and their self accomplishments turn them into a stuck up, hypocritcal assholes that want to always tell a man what he isn’t doing right all the time, but she does everything perfect (in her reality). I want to add another one too, the trifling disrespectful woman that has over 50 guy friends that she spend too much time with and they aren’t having sex. That is B.S. and these women need to be slapped seriously. Why is that when a man has alot of female friends, it’s not right and if you have a right to feel uncomfortable, but when I say as a man, that you have to many male friends and I am uncomfortable, you call me insecure. How double standard is that.

Oh yeah, another type are the women who call a man gay because we caught you up in your lies and/or games. It’s funny, I am handsome, charming, and a well balanced man, until I hear your ex or boyfriend in the background, which you lied about having over there or still dealing with. Then I am a weak, gay a** nigga. Women today are doing things not because they have a reason, but because they are listening to the media, black men are allowing it, and women are getting more immature and ignorant as they age.

If you are tired of being alone for Valentine’s ladies, learn how to be strong and submissive with a balance. Stop always trying to be a man, and be the woman as God created you. Women have become so disrespectful these days, and you can’t blame rap videos any longer about the disrespect of women because even now R&B, Pop artists are doing the same thing. Women always have an excuse about their cheating ways, their negative remarks, and making a man feel like he is nothing, and many times, it’s not the man,it’s the woman who has the issues. You are no better than men, please stop thinking you are better. Because you have a job, or a piece of paper behind your name doesn’t mean you are granted superpowers, you are still a nigga like everyone else. You just have a few more doors opening up for you, that’s all. However, you can have those doors slammed in your face just like anyone else as well.

I am not saying the brotha don’t have their issues from the men that don’t want to work or attend school, the men who are in prison over stupid charges, and men who are lazy and have no ambition. However, its just not the men who are like that…What about the women out here having babies just to be a welfare check and use up those that are working tax paying dollars. Mothers who are throwing their babies in dumpsters killing them, and allowing live in boyfriends to hurt their children. What about those women..Let’s about those trifling people.

Just keeping it real people – Happy Valentine’s Day

By: Divine_Spirals

Divine_Spirals — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:42:07 +0000

I’d like to add another reason: romance gets in the way of friendship. People are so busy trying to dodge “friend zone” that they are stopping the one thing that allows a real relationship to actually last, friendship. Good thing I’ve got my friends this Valentine’s Day. Have a great one, everybody.

By: andrea_denise

andrea_denise — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:18:25 +0000

wow i think ive been acting like ms.doormat because i do be doing to much and it never seems to end up going anywhere-i learned something:)

By: U_InquireMi

U_InquireMi — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:55:43 +0000

So much misery in the comments smh. I’m single and V-day is cool to me. Like someone said you can tell from reading the comments who are the angry lonely ones. Trying to act like your empowering women, please you’re trying to convince yourself that your not angry for being alone. Honesty is the best policy. But everyone enjoy your V-day if you have someone or if you’re single etc. Just be thankful you are alive and in good health.

By: SINJA_

SINJA_ — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:13:14 +0000

….us…. HAPPY “I LOVE ME SOOO MUCH THAT YOU NEED A RESERVATION” DAY my sisters! xoxo

By: SINJA_

SINJA_ — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:11:17 +0000

I’ve noticed that as V-Day gets closer, I’ve received more notes, messages and gifts on this site. I guess women aren’t the only panicking because they don’t have a special person for that special day. However, I’m still single by choice(clearly)
.. Ladies-we all now quantity doesn’t mean quality… just because you have offers doesn’t mean these men are worth a damn!. Guys like Alphamanec are a prime example-talking all that smack because he gets turned down!..
So do you my sisters-even if we are sans valentines on the 14th, we are still the bomb and special….waiting for that special person who DESERVES

By: SimplePleasure09

SimplePleasure09 — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:43:26 +0000

LMAO!!! I’m so glad I’m not one the women described here. So I guess I’ll finish making my “silly, meaningless and commericial” plans for Valentine’s Day. Flowers…check, dinner at a nice restaurant…check, lingerie for the “after party”…check, Not making up excuses as to why I’m single lonely and supposedly “NOT” looking for a man…PRICELESS!!

I swear let it go already, Lil Pookie has moved on got his new broad pregnant. HE CAN’T HURT YOU AGAIN!!! Now if you pick another Lil’ Pookie after the first one, is it the man or you???

By: Alphamanec

Alphamanec — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:07:33 +0000

CAUSE THEY SPEND MORE TIME REJECTING MEN & LOOKING & FINDING OUT REASONS NOT TO BE WITH SOMEONE… THESE SAME WOMEN ARE THE SAME ONES WHO ARE GONNA GROW UP LONELY OLD LADIES & DIE WITH THEIR PET CAT AT THEIR BEDSIDE & A VIBRATOR THAT RAN OUT OF BATTERIES IN THEIR HANDS..LOL

WHAT WOMEN FAIL TO REALIZE IS THAT WOMEN DONT HAVE AS LONG A SHELF LIFE AS US MEN… MEN BECOME MORE DISTINGUISHED & AGE GRACEFULLY… WOMEN JUST PLAIN DEPRECIATE & MORE WOMEN LIKE OLDER MEN THAN MEN LIKE OLDER WOMEN.
& YA TITTIES TEND 2 SAG DUE 2 GRAVITY. SO TRY 2 LOCK UP A DUDE NOW WHILE YA CAN B4 ITS TOO LATE!

By: killerjam

killerjam — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:00:10 +0000

real spit a lot of women that are single are just immature whores lets be honest.

By: Glammaruss

Glammaruss — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:12:14 +0000

I really don’t get the big deal that it makes whether you have a man on Valentines day or not…seeing as most women who do have a man still don’t get the roses, romantic dinners or gifts anyway.
To me, articles like this, just add to the plight of the Black Woman. Who wrote the book that states that a woman is only a woman if she has a man in her life to celebrate Valentines day!
Where does all that mess come from? Women have come a long way and to constantly see articles like this that try to place women in this “I HAVE TO HAVE A MAN TO SIGNIFY MY WOMANHOOD” crap is only showing the lack of confidence in the spirit and motivations of Black Women!

By: MsTjaye

MsTjaye — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 23:20:07 +0000

Where is the article about “Why you don’t have a woman this V-Day”? Oh are they still pushing that “Men are single by choice and women are single for lack of being chosen” mess? And are women still falling for it? Cute.

By: makincheddah

makincheddah — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 22:32:55 +0000

BECAUSE DONT NOBODY LIKE ME NOR WANT TO GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY NOR BE WITH ME OR TAKE THEIR TIME OUT TO WANT TO GET TO KNOW ME.