Comments on: Age Ain't Nothin' But A Number

By: Teefa18

Teefa18 — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 05:31:11 +0000

I think location is very important…although it can also be a real test of true love, it is an inconvenience. absence does make the heart grow fonder but it could also have you looking else where for love. I strongly disagree with phone sex lmao!

By: MsDark-n-Loveli

MsDark-n-Loveli — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 14:32:14 +0000

Oooops…….it’s not about the age! I’m sorry that was a typo!

By: MsDark-n-Loveli

MsDark-n-Loveli — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 14:30:49 +0000

Baby look it’s about the age really. However, I want you to keep this in mind: IF SHE WILL DO THAT TO HER LONGTERM BOYFRIEND……SHE MOST CERTAINLY WILL DO THAT TO YOU…….THE NEWCOMER!!!!!
IT’S NOT WORTH IT!! You want class not trash!

By: shangri-la246

shangri-la246 — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 05:35:44 +0000

WOW! That was crazy…I am guessing they have an understanding that they are dating other people due to distance? She did let you know she has a man; and she showed him that what mattered was he. I am not condoning her behavior, but personally, I could not stomach that stress…

By: SUPREMELADY32

SUPREMELADY32 — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 22:19:50 +0000

I saw the game before I read down to the last word.That was not funny,I lost a close friend to something senseless like that. Playing games can lead to serious outcomes.She was to old to be acting so inmature like that. I hope she never gets caught.He felt a vibe. Good thing you had good sense to get out while you had a chance.Be more careful young brother.

P.S.
I would have taken you to a cheap motel. LOL

By: MoeBetter5

MoeBetter5 — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:31:18 +0000

I like that< but it is what it is. What’s left to ask is what is the relationship between her and her dude in this long term relationship? Do they have an under or even an overstanding that we don’t know about?

Now I have a problem with her kissing dude in the mouth only if she made him play middle man. If not, it’s like your girl giving you a threesome. You don’t pay the other girl more attention than you do your girl. So she paid kid proper respect.

I don’t have a girlfriend, but a few people that i am cool with. However wanting and desiring to be more, if I’m out with one or am in the same place with a couple at the same time, i will not kiss one in front of the other out of respect.

However if i am out with someone and another female is trying to be disrespectful and holla blatantly or if I’m just in a place full of fine females I will kiss my friend in the mouth to show the other female she is wrong or my friend that all of the attention is on her despite where we are or who i see. i like the brain tease though. Stay in touch Hommie.

By: lil_momma_gjcc

lil_momma_gjcc — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:13:49 +0000

I truly love your writings. Its funny when I read the words/ “I am not looking for love”. When I state the fact I am not looking for a love relationship it seems as people think I am joking. Right now I am not looking for that in my life. However, I do say if you capture my heart hold on to it and I will come back for it. Does that contradict my first statement? In someways yes. In others no. Thanks for taking the time to share.

By: karamel024

karamel024 — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 21:50:14 +0000

Mr. Clark you really had my attention with that 1. Especially the, “it was Lady and the Tramp all over again… but with french fries.” LOL:) Man I am sorry for your crazy encounter in the NY but thats the way it is all over, its just that New York has a no holds bar mentality. “It is what it is.” What doesn’t break you makes you much much stronger. Live, Laugh and Love
Karamel024

By: TOUNGEOUT

TOUNGEOUT — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 06:19:53 +0000

LOCATION DOES NOT MEAN SHHH-IT!!! THE CHEATS WILL CHEAT IN THE NEXT ROOM WHILE U NAPPING,YA HEARD!!!

By: foru2lv

foru2lv — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 22:41:25 +0000

Okay. I hardly roam on any of these sites that I’m signed up for but somehow, your story caught my eye. Having read the entire article and situation…it’s hella-funny man! LOL. Really though, looks like you all hooked up the NEXT day after you met and shared fries…c’mon now. I know you just couldn’t turn it down in your face but you’re lucky you got out of there! It’s not just the men who cheat and now you know. So sad because peeps like this shorty you hooked up with make it darn near impossible for faithfuls out there! Uhm…sounds like you’re sized up just right to be her local jump off…and she asking if you ’bout it ’bout it! LOL

By: tyarradavis

tyarradavis — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 07:51:25 +0000

dam you could write books ,your life sounds somewhat like mine

By: OHIO_PEACH1

OHIO_PEACH1 — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 05:23:57 +0000

Well the only thing honestly i can say is misery don’t like company and she doesn’t sound sound like the company you need to keep boo boo.Real talk even if your not looking for love it’s still a dangerous walk to walk.Just like they say never let the right hand know what the left hand is doing.So you be careful,but things will work out the way you want them to just have faith.Stay up player.

By: Synsir10

Synsir10 — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 01:51:25 +0000

Long distance relationships is one “SHIP” I don’t plan to aboard! Lol! I will say this though, if I was to consider a long distance relationship, it would have to be from the very beginning of meeting that person, not meeting them and then off him or I go. Keeping things “Drama Free” is an art and one that I try to get better and better at as I experience the matters of life. Trust is another factor that is the main ingredient to ANY relationship and then the Honesty. They work hand-in-hand. Be open and allow yourselves to express yourselves freely. Be considerate and understanding to the needs and respect them or leave it all alone. AVOID dishonesty and misleading!

By: kia983

kia983 — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 07:25:15 +0000

How important is location in love? Thats the question… i have a long distance friendship/crush. He’s in NY and Im in MN.
I’m coming there in Feb alone and i am not expecting too much of his time. He’s very popular, handsome, in the music indust. But being that he is considerate I at the very least expect dinner or drinks. Long distance relationships/friendships can work just make sure u start off with a clear understanding of where U want it to go and what u want from the experience. If all you want is sex from that person this will be the easiest thing to get from a person cause as we all know sex is just the surface of a person. We have spent the last year and a half emailing, texting, talking on the phone just getting to know each other. We have not taken this to another level, we spent time together last time I was in NY had some conversation and some kisses goodbye. things are honest and I feel we have a connection. We treat each special.. So I know have a clear view of waht being in a realtionship with him would be like. Getting to know a person can take a very long time so it’s your coin to flip. As for me and my upcoming trip to NY to see my Friend/crush.. lol we’ll see what happens…

By: RED5BONE95

RED5BONE95 — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 05:09:49 +0000

Damn that’s messed up.you have 2 watch out for those wolves in sheep’s clothing.That’s why i keep my guard up because no matter how intelligent a man or women sounds or how captivating his or her eye’s are you just never know .I just can’t put myself in those type of situations.

By: Round_Brown76

Round_Brown76 — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 21:44:56 +0000

Yes Yes, only in NY. I love it. thanks for sharing. Your writing is sick(good) and extremely entertaining. I will make sure to tell my friends to tune in. You make me reconsider moving back to BK boy how I miss the encounters. lol
Stay Close

By: ClarkKentBKNY

ClarkKentBKNY — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 18:38:11 +0000

@onlyrookie, mochaschoice, nanapeppa

I can only write what I’ve seen when it comes to Single in the City. I thank you guys for your commentary. Even though she DID have a man, I played those odds and unfortunately, the cards were against me on that hand. It is also hard to live life drama free, but I applaud those who really try to remain stress-less.

Keep laughing and loving!

By: Onlyrookie

Onlyrookie — Thu, 25 Dec 2008 02:02:08 +0000

Damn, if that was a true confession; something that really happen to you…..all I can say is Damn!!! It is hard dating, checking out someone, looking for or being steady in a relationship……the fact that this may just be a story, but still have people like me wondering if it really happen says it all. I tried the long distance thing, funny enough it fell apart when my other half starting living in the same city with me……..DRAMA unfolded…every heard the story about when the phone righs..lomg story…….Did I my mention my other half was a husband not just someone I was kicking with? What can I say life is life……we can only laugh and live….thanks for the laugh. As for me I am living DRAMA FREE.

By: Mochaschoice

Mochaschoice — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 02:07:28 +0000

Laughing..what a hot mess! Well, she did say she had a man….lol That was funny. Thanks for sharing!

By: nanapeppa

nanapeppa — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 00:31:06 +0000

@ClarkKentBKNY-
i’m diggin’ the natural, honest feel of your writing. having read the comments, so does everyone else. you’re sharing soul aspects of human nature and a few intricacies of your own subconscious in the process. the social dynamics of dating and male/female relationship comlexities are always and forever topics of great interest. how about keeping us updated in your escapades and rendezvous?

By: boricuatiger

boricuatiger — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 23:52:54 +0000

Wow!!! I hope that the next time you decided to try to holla at someone who has a man you think twice…As for the chick I can’t even hate on what she did. People do what ever they want when it comes to relationships nothing is monogamous anymore. Men and women are alike in so many ways only thing is neither one wants to admit it and call each other names. Its sad.

By: Superwo_man

Superwo_man — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 19:12:50 +0000

Thanks for the few giggles and one; ok three out burst, while sitting at my desk. That was funny and cute at the same time and a little bit of life; ok your life…..Life izzz a black sheet of paper; what you write on it is what it will be. Oh be safe…

By: ClarkKentBKNY

ClarkKentBKNY — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 19:11:42 +0000

@Nanapeppa -

No. The girl and I had already stopped talking months before I even wrote this piece. So, it was just me putting out there a situation where I thought it was just funny how those stereotypes – however blurred they may be – still affect those who aren’t a part of the games that the other one tries to get away with.

By: joyonearth

joyonearth — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 14:58:43 +0000

Monogmous relationships seem to be fading away, like chivalry. Trust and respect is apart of love and in this scenerio there is lack of. What pleases one may not please another. As long as its all put on the table in the beginning so there is no confusion.

By: monai1040

monai1040 — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 05:19:39 +0000

Sounds like the hunter got captured by the game!

By: Elequent1

Elequent1 — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 05:05:21 +0000

I find it ironic that in some of these posts the men will call the woman a name, yet they are just as willing to go with the flow when it comes to a peice of azz. Yes the chick was bogus, but im sure she learned it from a man, just like the ones talkin bout how they would hit it. In all fairness, both sexes are messed up. As long as you are careful you are allowed to make any sexual choices that float your boat. For the record, he may not have been faithful either but they still loved each other. People do what works for them. What bothers me is that when men cheat, that old stereotype is still present today, it’s like they are brushin their teeth, but when woman do it, we are made to sound sleezy and are called this or that. I salute the playa if she wanna put herself out there like dat.

By: nanapeppa

nanapeppa — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 02:18:10 +0000

hmmm… the woman you write of continues to float within the deep recesses of that mind yours, doesn’t she? what was it she said to you between hallejujahs and that third broken plate?

By: Gator_Girl

Gator_Girl — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 23:11:23 +0000

I agree with you on that, but true love would have never went to McDonald’s or to the club for that matter….. Possibility left that door WIDE open. Love is possible and you don’t have to look for it, it will find you.

By: luv_blkmen

luv_blkmen — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 22:42:09 +0000

You’ve heard it before I’m sure. Location, Location, Location. Me personally I’m not into the long distance relationship. I want my man near me where I can touch, kiss, feel and watch his ass LOL.

By: DIAMOND19892

DIAMOND19892 — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 21:55:38 +0000

AWW…ITS OK SWEETIE LAST VALENTINE I WAS DATING A GUY AND HE CAME OVER I HAD A DINNER READY ALL THE GOOD STUFF ND HE TOLD ME HE WAS GAY..BUT WAIT IT GETS BETTER HIS BOYFRIEND CAME WITH HIM…BUT YOU WILL FIND LOVE SOMEDAY