Comments on: 5 Signs Of A Friendship Gone Bad

By: naughtia74

naughtia74 — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 02:01:28 +0000

i just had to read this because my friend and i are no longer speaking at the moment and it really hurts we have been friends since middle school we do everything together as girlfriends do except sleep together lol but we meet guys she knows all my secrets i know hers she supports the fact that i’m bi and she compliments me alot as i do her she loves the fact that i’m a wild child i’ll say anything out my mouth and don’t give a damn and we are always sticking up for eachother even when it comes to family but we stop talking over an incident that took place which led me to believe that my friend was my frienemy i tried to reach her through text message and phone calls and she never got back to me i wanted to tell her that i knew what was going on and i thought we would talk about it and be friends by now but she has completely cut me off i love her as if she were my own flesh and blood we go through our ups and downs alot but at the end of it all we always come around but not this time she refuses to talk to me and i can’t believe she’s acting this way but life must go on we were so close i dnt know how us not speaking is affecting her but it’s really devastating to me i just pray oneday that my friend and i get it together because i’m really tired of falling in and out of friendships with her i’m always there when she needs me no matter what a friend until the end i wish she felt the same way.

By: mizzkahlia

mizzkahlia — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 23:03:12 +0000

*I have a few “friends” like that. I had to get rid of them because I was able to see that they didn’t acknowledge my success. I was always there for them, until one day I wised up, looked around and let them go. To hell with arguing, debating, getting upset. Its a waste of energy. I totally agree with the 4th rule. No one friendship should consist of energy loss, or physical exhaustion. Thats unecessary. Being jealous or envious of something is like almost being blindsighted. Your blessings will come when you pay attention to you!!!

By: nanapeppa

nanapeppa — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 16:55:58 +0000

This is one of the more relevantly poignant articles submitted by Hello Beautiful. The information is insightfully revealing and when compared to my own personal experiences, I found all five points to be startingly true; especially number three which focuses on “life-changing” moments. It is during the toughest of times that we as people come to know our true family and friends.

There’s a purpose and meaning behind everything. The Universe must have meant for me to read this today. I now realize that what I thought was once a good friendship worthy of mending cannot and should not be salvaged.

Thanks Hello Beautful!

By: LaDawnThEGreaT1

LaDawnThEGreaT1 — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:42:09 +0000

that is i why i only have one good friend.. others have came and left. but she has been here 13 years strong and counting.. i have endured all the things posted in this article. and i had to grow up and leave them type of people alone.. honestly i can say u dont need many friends to feel humble or even “popular” just one good friend to hold u down thru good and bad, thru the dumb shit we do, to the smart decisions we make, one who will never judge, but help u when things aren’t at peace, and who can help u make good decisions not talk about the bad ones u made… i can go on for hours about this.. but I LOVE MY BEST FRIEND.. IM GONNA CALL HER NOW..

By: gapeaches26

gapeaches26 — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:26:00 +0000

So true………

By: daisy1980

daisy1980 — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 12:22:49 +0000

that’s life some friends come and go out of your life, then you have some that leave a spot in ur life and offcourse the friends that are always there evendo you havent seen each other for a month, a year, 3 years but you know it’s still all good

By: sha0359

sha0359 — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 00:10:27 +0000

I get rid of friends when they don’t mean good for me, I want the best for them and i always praise their achievements, and when they look good i tell them they do.But when it come’s to me they tend not to say any thing. i find that when i am feeling down their always around me or phoneing me with their problems, but as soon has i feel on top of the world their off. so to say “jealousy” is when people want to cut you out their life’s, i disagree it might be the other way round that’s in my case, that’s why i remove people from my life! whats not good for me is history.