Comments on: Give the Nice Guy a Shot

By: AlanahW

AlanahW — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 07:50:00 +0000

Wow look at all the male commentors on here cosigning and shizz. As a black girl, I NEVER wanted a “thug”….EVER!!! So I say kiss my arse to all the guys claiming that all black women want “thugs”. Complete BS!

By: Gifted_One09

Gifted_One09 — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 18:56:24 +0000

GNR, everybody knows if u want a woman, f@%k buddy or nething wit a female u r suppose to blow her off, ignore her, n when u get it, put it down…..damn how difficult iz this. Itz not sum elusive mystery or unspeakable secret. Basicly jus do tha opposite of wut steve harvey said in his book……n she urz

By: shericesmith

shericesmith — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 01:55:49 +0000

I married a nice guy and he treats me very good. He still has a little ghetto in him, but over all he’s sweet, attentive and spoils me rotten. I don’t take advantage of the situation, I love him right back. There’s nothing wrong with being with a nice guy….however I must warn you, most nice guys have a slow burning temper that could be explosive if you push the wrong buttons.

By: candygirl0623

candygirl0623 — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 05:52:32 +0000

I KEEP FINDING LOSER AFTER. EITHER HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, ENGAGED, OR MARRIED. AND WHEN I FIND A SINGLE MAN ALL HE DOES IS BEG FOR MONEY AND JUST WANT TO BE SEX BUDDIES. I HAVE GIVEN UP ON LOVE AND FINDING THE RIGHT MAN FOR ME. I AM WONDERING IF HE IS EVEN OUT THERE. LIKE FLANNERY O’CONNER SAID “A GOOD MAN IS HARD TO FIND.”

By: deedeeclassof08

deedeeclassof08 — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 05:42:49 +0000

ALL I LOOK FOR IS THE NICE GUY…I DONT DATE THUGS/GANGSTERS/DRUG DEALERS ETC. ANYMORE…THEY ARE A WASTE OF TIME AND DONT CARE OR EVEN WANT A RELATIONSHIP….MOST OF THEM ARE CRAZY IN THE HEAD, HAVE TOO MANY KIDS, AINT DOING ANYTHING FOR THEMSELVES…..ALOT OF BLACK WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A GOOD MAN…SO THEY THINK THERE GETTING SOMETHING WITH THESE TYPE OF MEN. PERSONALLY, I FEEL THE NICE GUY IS THE BEST BECAUSE I KNOW I JUST MIGHT CAN BUILD SOMETHING WITH HIM. MOST OF THEM HAVE THERE HEAD ON THEIR SHOULDERS AND WHAT THEY WANT OUT OF LIFE. MARRIAGE MATERIAL AND I CAN TAKE THEM HOME TO MEET THE FAMILY.

By: royal_bloo

royal_bloo — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 05:24:57 +0000

Don’t give a nice guy anything. Keep what you have, we will find it from someone else!

By: Kountry_Mayne

Kountry_Mayne — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 21:49:47 +0000

Either way i give 2 fuks less. Always been a nice guy but now im more focused on my self. women are too confused and i aint got time for these high school games these females be playin. so let them date them guys let them have 3 – 5 kids , let them get their divorces and let them mess up their lives because mine aint goin no where.. im building mines.

By: bigman_213

bigman_213 — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 21:05:17 +0000

Women especially black women of today love confusion,and drama thugs bring to them.also its the sense of danger and the unknown they love most.we all know black women love to argue and they can’t do that with a good man.because most good men or peace keepers,also good man are NOT pushovers.they just don’t like confusion.but most importantly you will never see a good man raise his hand at woman unlike thugs and little boys do.

By: Adrenaline-Rush

Adrenaline-Rush — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 21:02:56 +0000

good article

By: Sketch-of-Bmore

Sketch-of-Bmore — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 20:41:26 +0000

Nowadays women chase thugs….not all but some but when a nice guy do come around its too easy for them to be with it doesn’t provide much of a challenge to them because he will call her, spend time with her etc. Let the thug type come around….don’t call always, don’t see her often and she’s chasing him asking questions like “What’s going on with you?”

By: piccolo19

piccolo19 — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 20:24:20 +0000

finally someone with sense