Tip 1: Be comfortable
Make sure you are comfortable in what you are wearing. While you should, and will want to make an effort with your appearance, there is little point dressing in clothes you would not normally wear as ultimately, you have to be totally honest about who you are. Forcing yourself to keep up an unrealistic presence will only add to your anxiety.
Tip 2: Be Prepared
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Tip 3: Short and sweet
Don’t feel bad about keeping the first date short. Meeting for a coffee rather than dinner will let you assess whether or not you are compatible before you commit to a whole day or evening in their company. First dates can be a little awkward at first but try to find an interesting venue which will at least give you a starting point if conversation lags.
Tip 4: Share interests
If you would rather not sit and attempt to make chit chat, go to an event, museum or gallery, preferably related to a shared interest. If you are not sure what he likes and dislikes, introduce him to something which you enjoy as it will give you the opportunity to let him learn about you but try not to dominate the conversation completely.
Tip 5: Informal dining
If he suggest dinner, pick a restaurant which has a good tapas style menu. This provides a more interactive and informal dining experience. You can both order some dishes you like and try foods the other enjoys. Again, it gives you the opportunity to learn about each other and to assess what you have in common.