Have you ever been that single girl on Valentine’s Day who proclaims the day “Valendoom’s Day,” or updated many of your social media statuses with messages about “no good men,” “Valentine’s Day sucks” or the like? Then the woman who we all love and appreciate for writing juicy TV goodness like “Grey’s Anatomy” and “Scandal,” Shonda Rhimes has something to tell you single ladies who hate V-Day.
This is what Shonda had to say to single sisters:
Here is what I say to all the ladies who are alone on Valentines Day: please do not ever use these words “ladies who are alone on Valentine’s Day” together in a sentence ever again. Ever. Again.
Valentine’s Day is just a day. It’s just a day of the year like any other. Go. Be happy with the people you love and who love you. See a friend. Read a book. Flirt with a cute boy (or girl). Dance it out. Watch a movie. Have a party. Build a robot. Stop a Zombie Apocalypse. Take over the Earth. Paint your toenails. Eat soup. DO ANYTHING.
BUT DO NOT buy into the idea that a day created by greeting card companies should be more romantic than other day or should make you feel lonelier than any other day. Cause life is awesome. And that (feeling lonely cause of a day) is stupid. And a waste of perfectly good time. And it makes me do things like write ranty tweets. Because FOR REALS? You’re asking me to cheer up women who are alone of Valentine’s Day? You don’t need cheering up. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. You are perfect and awesome just like you are. You just happen to be listening to someone who says you aren’t. They are idiots. Ignore them.
Because FYI? A lot of great things can happen to you while you are single.
I came up with a show called Grey’s Anatomy while I was single.
Fuck Valentine’s Day. Go do something with your life.
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"I wish for a more perfect union." Deborah Hill, age undisclosed
2. Dash Harris
"I wish for America to have never made up the concept of race." Dash Harris, 26
3. Kalieya H
"I wish for the elimination of guns and bullets." Kalieya H., 22
4. Amafra K
"I wish for America to be more international." Amafra K., 30
5. Sadiyya A
"I wish us all peace and respect for each other." Sadiyya A., 58
6. Desiree H
"I wish for free education." Desiree H., 26
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"I wish for free health care for everyone." Sierra K., 23
8. Tanesha Barnes
"I wish for cultural revolution." Tanesha Barnes, age undisclosed
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"I wish for peace." Alana H., 32
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11. Kaylan C
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"I wish for economic stability." Heather D., 29
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"I wish for an improved political system with more than two parties." Jason-Louise G., 27
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19. Stella A.
"I wish for everyone to love each other." Stella A., 29
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"I wish that we teach black boys and girls their true history so they can learn to love themselves." Mia D., 24
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"My one wish is for us to find a cure for HIV."
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"I wish for peace." Ashley G., 22
24. Glorya H
"I wish for equality." Glorya H.
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26. Natasha W.
"I wish us rich." Natasha W., 34
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"I wish for more prosperity and more peace for all." Melissa Powell, 30
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"I wish for the return of strong families." Marissa Mounds, 30
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50. Jessica Maina
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