When I was in my early twenties I had a checklist. You know ladies, the ins and outs of what you want in a potential mate. It is amazing to me how much that checklist has changed almost 10 years later. Sure, there are some of the more essential factors on the list that would never change but my point is that what I thought would make me happy then, would definitely not make me happy now. It amazes me how much as women we grow and blossom. We are forever evolving creatures. With that being said, is it possible that having a checklist can prevent you from having a man?
What I am saying is, can we get so caught up in finding that “perfect man” in our minds that we lose sight of the truly essential components that would really make us happy because we are focused on a list that we have concocted in our heads? Or we completely are blind to a potentially great man that is digging us.
I watch Chilli from TLC’s VH1 reality show where she is on the quest for “true love”. Now, on some points I totally agree with her checklist but then there are times when I think she might want to ease up on some of those qualifications. Some have more to do with vanity and shallowness than love or the infamous feeling of settling. Sure it is great to feel that you are the s**t and have it going on and blah blah.. But at what point does the feeling of confidence and searching for what you know you deserve cross over into ignorance, arrogance and loneliness… To Read The Rest Go To YeahSheSaidIt